The design of that whip is definitely impractical that's true, but I was simply searching for spikes and whip due to how I heard that it can actually be used.
So you haven't tried it then?
How are you supposed to outdo me when you're effectively a BDSM virgin?
I never handled any BDSM equipment that's true, but as a master of the craft..
I didn't have to.
Uhhh... it definitely takes experience, hence why there's classes on it. There's even an entire etiquette to BDSM practices that I'm guessing you've never even read.
Most cases where both weren't kinky already it usually involves one somewhat training the other.
That grey area you refer to is called mediocrity, and abnormal people can't be mediocre again. They can only be at the bottom or the top.
Why couldn't an abnormal person be mediocre?
Also given how you desire the lesson or at least you accept it, lesson number 1 about people:
You're not dealing with one person when you interact with someone, you're dealing with everything they asborbed from other people.
I'd argue I am dealing with one person still over how anything they've absorbed from other people had to go through their own filter. Once it's been thought over and reinterpreted enough it tends to not be the same as how it was for said other people.
It's also a bit of a moot point when this otherwise applies to your average joe. It's like saying "You aren't dealing with just one piece of food when you eat, you're dealing with everything it's made of" or something.
So to understand them, you must firstly understand the root that caused their behavior.
Without that you're gasping at straws.
Most people know this basic shit dude, it's in more than enough television.