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Outro said: 

I can live with having something fundamentally wrong with me, so long as it doesn't prohibit me from ever getting laid. 

 So you require proof that you're capable of getting laid, immediately after getting out of a relationship in which you were... getting laid?  I'm sorry, I'm just not following the logic here. lol

 Lol ok Spock. Idk about you but my post-breakup rebounds are typically driven more by existential dread and alcohol than by logic. 

 

Outro said: 
Outro said: 

I'm sure someone's already said it, but definitely rebounding. It's a necessary part of the process imo 

 Why?

 Confirms that there isn't something fundamentally and irreversibly wrong with you.

I've always seen it as some of the crazier people that end up getting laid more. 

I think the crazier people are probably just less discerning.

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tpp said: 

What gets me most is that I imagine her to tell her friends that I have weaknesses etc and portrays me as worthless. And that she devalues me and think how could I even have thought he is good etc. that she ridicules me with her friends. somehow this is the worst for me after a breakup. it is always a feeling of shame. 

After trying to recall my past relationships.. I never felt like anything after a break-up. It's intriguing to me how... much you people care. Are these feelings useful to you? Is it because you had a connection that you feel them shitting on that connection that feels bad..? After all my break ups, it was my significant other who was crying.. and I felt nothing. The week or two after, I find someone else. I never felt any connection with my partners. I'm so lonely, even in relationships.. It's really interesting to me how much effort you people put into trying to soothe yourself over your broken connections. It makes me.. jealous.

without feelings life would be pretty fucking boring

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i sense a lot of hostility and passive aggression in this thread

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tpp said: 

What gets me most is that I imagine her to tell her friends that I have weaknesses etc and portrays me as worthless. And that she devalues me and think how could I even have thought he is good etc. that she ridicules me with her friends. somehow this is the worst for me after a breakup. it is always a feeling of shame. 

After trying to recall my past relationships.. I never felt like anything after a break-up. It's intriguing to me how... much you people care. Are these feelings useful to you? Is it because you had a connection that you feel them shitting on that connection that feels bad..? After all my break ups, it was my significant other who was crying.. and I felt nothing. The week or two after, I find someone else. I never felt any connection with my partners. I'm so lonely, even in relationships.. It's really interesting to me how much effort you people put into trying to soothe yourself over your broken connections. It makes me.. jealous.

without feelings life would be pretty fucking boring

 The sweetest thing you've said. <3

Thrall to the Wire of Self-Excited Circuit.
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tpp said: 

What gets me most is that I imagine her to tell her friends that I have weaknesses etc and portrays me as worthless. And that she devalues me and think how could I even have thought he is good etc. that she ridicules me with her friends. somehow this is the worst for me after a breakup. it is always a feeling of shame. 

After trying to recall my past relationships.. I never felt like anything after a break-up. It's intriguing to me how... much you people care. Are these feelings useful to you? Is it because you had a connection that you feel them shitting on that connection that feels bad..? After all my break ups, it was my significant other who was crying.. and I felt nothing. The week or two after, I find someone else. I never felt any connection with my partners. I'm so lonely, even in relationships.. It's really interesting to me how much effort you people put into trying to soothe yourself over your broken connections. It makes me.. jealous.

without feelings life would be pretty fucking boring

Agreed. Plus why even bother with the complexities of a real human being if feelings don't matter. Just steal a mannequin from Target and drill a bunch of holes in it undecided

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tpp said: 

What gets me most is that I imagine her to tell her friends that I have weaknesses etc and portrays me as worthless. And that she devalues me and think how could I even have thought he is good etc. that she ridicules me with her friends. somehow this is the worst for me after a breakup. it is always a feeling of shame. 

After trying to recall my past relationships.. I never felt like anything after a break-up. It's intriguing to me how... much you people care. Are these feelings useful to you? Is it because you had a connection that you feel them shitting on that connection that feels bad..? After all my break ups, it was my significant other who was crying.. and I felt nothing. The week or two after, I find someone else. I never felt any connection with my partners. I'm so lonely, even in relationships.. It's really interesting to me how much effort you people put into trying to soothe yourself over your broken connections. It makes me.. jealous.

without feelings life would be pretty fucking boring

 The sweetest thing you've said. <3

 why?

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tpp said: 

What gets me most is that I imagine her to tell her friends that I have weaknesses etc and portrays me as worthless. And that she devalues me and think how could I even have thought he is good etc. that she ridicules me with her friends. somehow this is the worst for me after a breakup. it is always a feeling of shame. 

After trying to recall my past relationships.. I never felt like anything after a break-up. It's intriguing to me how... much you people care. Are these feelings useful to you? Is it because you had a connection that you feel them shitting on that connection that feels bad..? After all my break ups, it was my significant other who was crying.. and I felt nothing. The week or two after, I find someone else. I never felt any connection with my partners. I'm so lonely, even in relationships.. It's really interesting to me how much effort you people put into trying to soothe yourself over your broken connections. It makes me.. jealous.

 were u ever broken up with?

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tpp said: 

What gets me most is that I imagine her to tell her friends that I have weaknesses etc and portrays me as worthless. And that she devalues me and think how could I even have thought he is good etc. that she ridicules me with her friends. somehow this is the worst for me after a breakup. it is always a feeling of shame. 

After trying to recall my past relationships.. I never felt like anything after a break-up. It's intriguing to me how... much you people care. Are these feelings useful to you? Is it because you had a connection that you feel them shitting on that connection that feels bad..? After all my break ups, it was my significant other who was crying.. and I felt nothing. The week or two after, I find someone else. I never felt any connection with my partners. I'm so lonely, even in relationships.. It's really interesting to me how much effort you people put into trying to soothe yourself over your broken connections. It makes me.. jealous.

without feelings life would be pretty fucking boring

 The sweetest thing you've said. <3

 why?

 Just is.

Thrall to the Wire of Self-Excited Circuit.
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mhmmmmmmmmmm

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were u ever broken up with?

No... Now that I think about it, I haven't.

And yes.. I'm jealous of people who feel vibrantly in relationships and upon break up.

Buttered Toast: (Lolling at a German dude's English grammar)
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