Turncoat said:We ought to drag FOTS into this, as that is the only other open pathway. If he says it wasn't him, then it looks like we've got a mystery on our hands.
I didn't ask fots, he came into chat on the server asking if anyone knew shiftycunt as he was asking for an invite.
Turncoat said:...how does Xadem know your ex-husband's job better than you do?
I know his job I just don't want to necessarily give away too much information. I'm super uncomfortable as it is, I feel like hiding. Xad reckons shifty has been sufficiently bullied off sc now so I wish this would all just blow over.
Turncoat said:What possessed you to tell Shifty about this place? Had you already been here a while before meeting Xadem?
I was still living with him when I joined, he saw.
Turncoat said:How did the divorce proceedings go btw? Doesn't he have to sign off on it or something?
you can file for divorce without the consent of both parties if you have been separated for more than a year or if you have affidavits from mutual friends attesting to the irreparable breakdown of the marriage.
Turncoat said:Sorry I know it's probably coming off pushy and rude, but this has really been running hamster wheel laps in my head.
I'm so uncomfortable, I'm trying to be accommodating as I understand that he's made it public here now, but I really don't want to make it any more public. please understand.
Lena said:I gotta ask scarlett, why not take screenshots of his threats and hand them over to police for harassing you and violating the restraining order?
I have, thank you for your concern but xad and I are on top of this guys.
I really don't want to answer any more questions, please understand and respect my privacy.