I read an article a long time ago, describing reseaech showing that women were more attracted to men for their minds and intelligence, but it was their looks that got passed down. While men were more attracted and selected women as partners based on their looks, but it was their intelligence that got passed down.
True to a degree. It takes time to express charisma. It'll happen under the right climate.
I watched a video where a guy went undercover on a dating app. He catfished as a stud and as it turned out he was sexually harassed and was collecting coutless numbers from women who made it clear they will fuck right away.
Dating apps are not for dating. Dating apps are for fucking.
More often we see women seeking a genuine long term relationship on dating apps.
What dating apps are you using, some sort of Christian Singles service?
Dating app are clearly streamlined for fucking.
So if men pick better looking women, and compromise on intelligence, the population pool could be getting dumber if men aren't selecting the smartest women for procreation if they are more concerned with physical looks.
While men could be getting less attractive if women are compromising on looks, by going for intelligence and other personality traits as the determining factor, while the physical appearance deemed less critical is what is passing down and dominating the gene pool.
As for intelligence. lol. Guys in general think they are smarter than women, and we don't exactly look forward to being the sidekick.
A lot of men prefer a secondary role. They're told they're not supposed to.
What role might that be?
From what I've gathered, women are happier when they are submissive, hence them being submissive in a functioning relationship.
Funny, I've seen women as more of a spectrum of desires than one uniform template, and as society allows them more autonomy less of them are reflecting a submissive model.
Thank goodness for the modern age.
I think our species populating is going to slow down, while men are being emasculated and women gradually resent their traditional and natural roles in a healthy loving family setting.
If it's so healthy, why would we resent it? lol
Technological advances and movements through social media has made women more self absorbed.
Just women in particular? To me it's seemed fairly unisex as a byproduct of tech's contribution towards social insulation in conjunction with media that asks us 'who we are' instead of 'what we're a part of'.
Then they long for the glory of overtaking men not only in the workspace, but also in God given power.
That's just the 'out of the closet' mindset that's surfaced as a counter-response against their former states of repression. Once female autonomy is more normalized it won't seem like some sort of glorious undertaking. Unfortunately.
For the modern woman, the agenda in the grand scheme of them is more about Career> Politics> but not so much Family.
They fight for family rights in the form of women's rights, such as the right to contraceptives and equal pay in the workplace.
Both of these things contribute to family planning in more mature and constructive ways than some guy using a woman as an indentured servant.
These days Women who want families, plan to start one later on in life when they are less fertile and at the edge of the clock, and then life seems more miserable.
If they're smart, they save their eggs to preserve the quality of the child, reducing the odds of birth defects by comparison.
If she scored someone more wealthy than she is, and if he's as you might say "secondary role" she will at some point file for divorce, take half of his net worth and slap him with child support, and most of that money by a landslide doesn't go to the child, it goes into her Jenny Craig programs and shopping and other cosmetic ventures so she can bang some other guy.
It's like you're stuck before prenuptial agreements became more commonplace.
But yeah, traditional family settings produce healthier minds and lifestyles, you did know that right ?
I'd love to be able to have a real conversation with someone about this, rather than them pussing out from thinking some leftist flash mob's out to get them.
This era's made men into such cowards when it comes to speaking their mind.