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All she had to do was have an honest, frank conversation and the entire thing sorted itself out. That talk she and I had is actually the perfect example over how it demonstrates that my mind isn't otherwise 'unchangeable'. 

I see what you're trying to say in general, but do you not see the room for people like Tryp to use it as a dodge? These sorts of things deserve a case by cases basis, rather than lumping it together to apply whenever it becomes convenient. 

Turncoat said: 

All she had to do was have an honest, frank conversation and the entire thing sorted itself out. That talk she and I had is actually the perfect example over how it demonstrates that, with just having a conversation, that my mind isn't unchangeable. 

I see what you're trying to say in general, but do you not see the room for people like Tryp to use it as a dodge? 

 You're focusing on the outcome which is good, great, fantastic even. The problem is the before, as you didn't actually open up that conversation but instead make a snarky comment iirc, you were already pushing this idea of her out despite never having an honest conversation with her before.  

It was easier for you simply continue having this idea of her and wanting it to fit.  You didn't seek her out to see if perhaps you were mistaken.

I'd also like to point out that you're putting it on her to have the conversation with you when in reality it's you that should have opened up that communication as it's you that kept pushing this idea of her out.

Whorechata said: 

Turncoat said: 

All she had to do was have an honest, frank conversation and the entire thing sorted itself out. That talk she and I had is actually the perfect example over how it demonstrates that, with just having a conversation, that my mind isn't unchangeable. 

I see what you're trying to say in general, but do you not see the room for people like Tryp to use it as a dodge? 

 You're focusing on the outcome which is good, great, fantastic even. The problem is the before, as you didn't actually open up that conversation but instead make a snarky comment iirc, you were already pushing this idea of her out despite never having an honest conversation with her before.  

It was easier for you simply continue having this idea of her and wanting it to fit.  You didn't seek her out to see if perhaps you were mistaken.

I'd also like to point out that you're putting it on her to have the conversation with you when in reality it's you that should have opened up that communication as it's you that kept pushing this idea of her out.

So in this case, you'd argue Tryp is not dodging? 

Turncoat said: 

Whorechata said: 

Turncoat said: 

All she had to do was have an honest, frank conversation and the entire thing sorted itself out. That talk she and I had is actually the perfect example over how it demonstrates that, with just having a conversation, that my mind isn't unchangeable. 

I see what you're trying to say in general, but do you not see the room for people like Tryp to use it as a dodge? 

 You're focusing on the outcome which is good, great, fantastic even. The problem is the before, as you didn't actually open up that conversation but instead make a snarky comment iirc, you were already pushing this idea of her out despite never having an honest conversation with her before.  

It was easier for you simply continue having this idea of her and wanting it to fit.  You didn't seek her out to see if perhaps you were mistaken.

I'd also like to point out that you're putting it on her to have the conversation with you when in reality it's you that should have opened up that communication as it's you that kept pushing this idea of her out.

So in this case, you'd argue Tryp is not dodging? 

 I give up

Turncoat said: 

Tryptamine said: 

See, this is you attempting to push a narrative again. Yes, I know what you think. How "convenient" is it that I get bored of a conversation after 50 responses. You can think what you like, it's fine.

You get bored in like five. 

Also, learn how to accept a compliment.

I know how to accept a genuine one, and have learned to avoid ones with clear agendas attached. 

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