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Cavalier said: 

Whorechata said: 

Cavalier said: 

Whorechata said: 

Cavalier said: 

Whorechata said: 

delora... said: 

Whorechata said: 

delora... said: 

Whorechata said: 

It's not all about you, 

 In fact you addressed me in em

 The one where I had forgotten that you were pro physical abuse?

 Two years ago, I no longer am, I was 19 you 51 year old hag. Pro spanking

 Spanking is physical abuse

 Spanking is not physical abuse. I'm starting to question of you werr actually sexually abused as a kid or did you pull a blanc. Its pathetic to take attention away from real abuse victims.

 Spanking is physical abuse- it's the loss of control of an adult letting out the frustrations on a child. You talk to them and make them understand what they did is bad- with words.

 There is a difference between methodical spanking and crazy abuse. The parent should spank with love and feel empathy for the child that is being spanked, instead of releasing his anger.

"Boo hoo i was spanked as a kid i was abused! If thats the case, most of us have been abused!" makes people take real abuse less seriously.

 How do you hit a child physically with love and empathy?

Spanking is physical Emotional reaction, and the emotion is not one of love.

 It's called operant conditioning, to teach the child that there are consequences. Even when you're filled with love, you shouldn't spoil the kid. When you teach kids, you act on reason, not emotion.

You think it's reasonable to hit a child as a form of discipline instead of of discussing what they did why it's bad and then giving out a reasonable punishment as a consequence to what they did? 

Physical reactions are emotional, it's also lazy. 

I wouldn't trust you to raise a kid if you act your emotions around them, without giving them any order. You're the adult, not the kid.

 You can have order without hitting your children. Hitting them means you're making them fear you not respect you. If anything they'll just hide the bad things they do for fear you'll hurt them.

Whorechata said: 

Cavalier said: 

Whorechata said: 

Cavalier said: 

Whorechata said: 

Cavalier said: 

Whorechata said: 

delora... said: 

Whorechata said: 

delora... said: 

Whorechata said: 

It's not all about you, 

 In fact you addressed me in em

 The one where I had forgotten that you were pro physical abuse?

 Two years ago, I no longer am, I was 19 you 51 year old hag. Pro spanking

 Spanking is physical abuse

 Spanking is not physical abuse. I'm starting to question of you werr actually sexually abused as a kid or did you pull a blanc. Its pathetic to take attention away from real abuse victims.

 Spanking is physical abuse- it's the loss of control of an adult letting out the frustrations on a child. You talk to them and make them understand what they did is bad- with words.

 There is a difference between methodical spanking and crazy abuse. The parent should spank with love and feel empathy for the child that is being spanked, instead of releasing his anger.

"Boo hoo i was spanked as a kid i was abused! If thats the case, most of us have been abused!" makes people take real abuse less seriously.

 How do you hit a child physically with love and empathy?

Spanking is physical Emotional reaction, and the emotion is not one of love.

 It's called operant conditioning, to teach the child that there are consequences. Even when you're filled with love, you shouldn't spoil the kid. When you teach kids, you act on reason, not emotion.

You think it's reasonable to hit a child as a form of discipline instead of of discussing what they did why it's bad and then giving out a reasonable punishment as a consequence to what they did? 

Physical reactions are emotional, it's also lazy. 

I wouldn't trust you to raise a kid if you act your emotions around them, without giving them any order. You're the adult, not the kid.

 You can have order without hitting your children. Hitting them means you're making them fear you not respect you. If anything they'll just hide the bad things they do for fear you'll hurt them.

 What punishments would you give out? 

Cavalier said: 

Whorechata said: 

Cavalier said: 

Whorechata said: 

Cavalier said: 

Whorechata said: 

Cavalier said: 

Whorechata said: 

delora... said: 

Whorechata said: 

delora... said: 

Whorechata said: 

It's not all about you, 

 In fact you addressed me in em

 The one where I had forgotten that you were pro physical abuse?

 Two years ago, I no longer am, I was 19 you 51 year old hag. Pro spanking

 Spanking is physical abuse

 Spanking is not physical abuse. I'm starting to question of you werr actually sexually abused as a kid or did you pull a blanc. Its pathetic to take attention away from real abuse victims.

 Spanking is physical abuse- it's the loss of control of an adult letting out the frustrations on a child. You talk to them and make them understand what they did is bad- with words.

 There is a difference between methodical spanking and crazy abuse. The parent should spank with love and feel empathy for the child that is being spanked, instead of releasing his anger.

"Boo hoo i was spanked as a kid i was abused! If thats the case, most of us have been abused!" makes people take real abuse less seriously.

 How do you hit a child physically with love and empathy?

Spanking is physical Emotional reaction, and the emotion is not one of love.

 It's called operant conditioning, to teach the child that there are consequences. Even when you're filled with love, you shouldn't spoil the kid. When you teach kids, you act on reason, not emotion.

You think it's reasonable to hit a child as a form of discipline instead of of discussing what they did why it's bad and then giving out a reasonable punishment as a consequence to what they did? 

Physical reactions are emotional, it's also lazy. 

I wouldn't trust you to raise a kid if you act your emotions around them, without giving them any order. You're the adult, not the kid.

 You can have order without hitting your children. Hitting them means you're making them fear you not respect you. If anything they'll just hide the bad things they do for fear you'll hurt them.

 What punishments would you give out? 

 It depends on what was done, something within reason and not physical abuse.

Whorechata said: 

Cavalier said: 

Whorechata said: 

Cavalier said: 

Whorechata said: 

Cavalier said: 

Whorechata said: 

Cavalier said: 

Whorechata said: 

delora... said: 

Whorechata said: 

delora... said: 

Whorechata said: 

It's not all about you, 

 In fact you addressed me in em

 The one where I had forgotten that you were pro physical abuse?

 Two years ago, I no longer am, I was 19 you 51 year old hag. Pro spanking

 Spanking is physical abuse

 Spanking is not physical abuse. I'm starting to question of you werr actually sexually abused as a kid or did you pull a blanc. Its pathetic to take attention away from real abuse victims.

 Spanking is physical abuse- it's the loss of control of an adult letting out the frustrations on a child. You talk to them and make them understand what they did is bad- with words.

 There is a difference between methodical spanking and crazy abuse. The parent should spank with love and feel empathy for the child that is being spanked, instead of releasing his anger.

"Boo hoo i was spanked as a kid i was abused! If thats the case, most of us have been abused!" makes people take real abuse less seriously.

 How do you hit a child physically with love and empathy?

Spanking is physical Emotional reaction, and the emotion is not one of love.

 It's called operant conditioning, to teach the child that there are consequences. Even when you're filled with love, you shouldn't spoil the kid. When you teach kids, you act on reason, not emotion.

You think it's reasonable to hit a child as a form of discipline instead of of discussing what they did why it's bad and then giving out a reasonable punishment as a consequence to what they did? 

Physical reactions are emotional, it's also lazy. 

I wouldn't trust you to raise a kid if you act your emotions around them, without giving them any order. You're the adult, not the kid.

 You can have order without hitting your children. Hitting them means you're making them fear you not respect you. If anything they'll just hide the bad things they do for fear you'll hurt them.

 What punishments would you give out? 

 It depends on what was done, something within reason and not physical abuse.

 If your 5 year old won't give up your phone after he's been playing on it for an hour.

Cavalier said: 

Whorechata said: 

Cavalier said: 

Whorechata said: 

Cavalier said: 

Whorechata said: 

Cavalier said: 

Whorechata said: 

Cavalier said: 

Whorechata said: 

delora... said: 

Whorechata said: 

delora... said: 

Whorechata said: 

It's not all about you, 

 In fact you addressed me in em

 The one where I had forgotten that you were pro physical abuse?

 Two years ago, I no longer am, I was 19 you 51 year old hag. Pro spanking

 Spanking is physical abuse

 Spanking is not physical abuse. I'm starting to question of you werr actually sexually abused as a kid or did you pull a blanc. Its pathetic to take attention away from real abuse victims.

 Spanking is physical abuse- it's the loss of control of an adult letting out the frustrations on a child. You talk to them and make them understand what they did is bad- with words.

 There is a difference between methodical spanking and crazy abuse. The parent should spank with love and feel empathy for the child that is being spanked, instead of releasing his anger.

"Boo hoo i was spanked as a kid i was abused! If thats the case, most of us have been abused!" makes people take real abuse less seriously.

 How do you hit a child physically with love and empathy?

Spanking is physical Emotional reaction, and the emotion is not one of love.

 It's called operant conditioning, to teach the child that there are consequences. Even when you're filled with love, you shouldn't spoil the kid. When you teach kids, you act on reason, not emotion.

You think it's reasonable to hit a child as a form of discipline instead of of discussing what they did why it's bad and then giving out a reasonable punishment as a consequence to what they did? 

Physical reactions are emotional, it's also lazy. 

I wouldn't trust you to raise a kid if you act your emotions around them, without giving them any order. You're the adult, not the kid.

 You can have order without hitting your children. Hitting them means you're making them fear you not respect you. If anything they'll just hide the bad things they do for fear you'll hurt them.

 What punishments would you give out? 

 It depends on what was done, something within reason and not physical abuse.

 If your 5 year old won't give up your phone after he's been playing on it for an hour.

 You take the phone away and tell them screen time is over and then you redirect their attention to something else. 

(Also don't give your kid a phone...)

Whorechata said: 

 You take the phone away and tell them screen time is over and then you redirect their attention to something else. 

(Also don't give your kid a phone...)

When you're not looking, the kid takes the phone and runs away with it.

I think you can raise a child right without spanking. But spanking, if done right, doesnt hurt in the long term.

Cavalier said: 

Whorechata said: 

 You take the phone away and tell them screen time is over and then you redirect their attention to something else. 

(Also don't give your kid a phone...)

When you're not looking, the kid takes the phone and runs away with it.

I think you can raise a child right without spanking. But spanking, if done right, doesnt hurt in the long term.

 Kids are mischievous and curious and push boundaries, it's what they do. You don't need to spank them for it.

I do think spanking hurts in the long run. 

I'm pregnant with an alien, its due tomorrow.

Whorechata said: 

Cavalier said: 

Whorechata said: 

Cavalier said: 

Whorechata said: 

Cavalier said: 

Whorechata said: 

delora... said: 

Whorechata said: 

delora... said: 

Whorechata said: 

It's not all about you, 

 In fact you addressed me in em

 The one where I had forgotten that you were pro physical abuse?

 Two years ago, I no longer am, I was 19 you 51 year old hag. Pro spanking

 Spanking is physical abuse

 Spanking is not physical abuse. I'm starting to question of you werr actually sexually abused as a kid or did you pull a blanc. Its pathetic to take attention away from real abuse victims.

 Spanking is physical abuse- it's the loss of control of an adult letting out the frustrations on a child. You talk to them and make them understand what they did is bad- with words.

 There is a difference between methodical spanking and crazy abuse. The parent should spank with love and feel empathy for the child that is being spanked, instead of releasing his anger.

"Boo hoo i was spanked as a kid i was abused! If thats the case, most of us have been abused!" makes people take real abuse less seriously.

 How do you hit a child physically with love and empathy?

Spanking is physical Emotional reaction, and the emotion is not one of love.

 It's called operant conditioning, to teach the child that there are consequences. Even when you're filled with love, you shouldn't spoil the kid. When you teach kids, you act on reason, not emotion.

You think it's reasonable to hit a child as a form of discipline instead of of discussing what they did why it's bad and then giving out a reasonable punishment as a consequence to what they did? 

Physical reactions are emotional, it's also lazy. 

I wouldn't trust you to raise a kid if you act your emotions around them, without giving them any order. You're the adult, not the kid.

 You can have order without hitting your children. Hitting them means you're making them fear you not respect you. If anything they'll just hide the bad things they do for fear you'll hurt them.

 I agree here. My mom spanked me and the result was I feared her and didn't respect her at all. Kids don't learn from being spanked, they just hide bad behavior 

PalePeach said:

I agree here. My mom spanked me and the result was I feared her and didn't respect her at all. Kids don't learn from being spanked, they just hide bad behavior

Either that or grit/dissociate through the punishment to get what they want from the bigger picture. 

Either way it teaches various reasons to resist authority, and every time they succeed in resisting after the authority figure has established itself as a violent punisher you further their unwillingness to taking punishments seriously (if not take them too seriously) as an adult, as they're handed over to larger bodies of authority. 

Kids are clever, especially when it comes to learning about their parents/legal guardians. They will both recognize the system put in place and try to find ways to get what they want from it, and if you present yourself as an oppressive authority figure, kids will simply learn to resist and resent authority.