Wait which people are laughing at TC?
They kept telling me it was with me, not at me.
You don't know how to let go beyond screaming at the source of it.
I will when she shuts up. Maybe ask the source to stop and not the side effect
So am I to take this as an admission from you that you cannot stop yourself, and that it is therefor all of our responsibilities to change the circumstances of your environment for you to stop this childish tantrum?
No your twisting my words- just because what I'm saying is an effect and she is why I say it does not mean shit- it is hypocritical to say to me to shut up but nothing to lena who keeps egging me on
It takes two to keep this going, and either stepping out should be enough to stop it. By choosing not to step back out of it yourself out of pride you're allowing this to continue as well.
Also i did initially step out of it, but she kept trying to start shit and then sayin that br reconsidered and well i can never keep my mouth shut about people being blatantly manipulated and misled.
Wait which people are laughing at TC?They kept telling me it was with me, not at me.
Imagine laughing with a schizo
It's not all about you,
In fact you addressed me in em
The one where I had forgotten that you were pro physical abuse?
Two years ago, I no longer am, I was 19 you 51 year old hag. Pro spanking
Spanking is physical abuse
Spanking is not physical abuse. I'm starting to question of you werr actually sexually abused as a kid or did you pull a blanc. Its pathetic to take attention away from real abuse victims.
Spanking is physical abuse- it's the loss of control of an adult letting out the frustrations on a child. You talk to them and make them understand what they did is bad- with words.
There is a difference between methodical spanking and crazy abuse. The parent should spank with love and feel empathy for the child that is being spanked, instead of releasing his anger.
"Boo hoo i was spanked as a kid i was abused! If thats the case, most of us have been abused!" makes people take real abuse less seriously.
You don't know how to let go beyond screaming at the source of it.
I will when she shuts up. Maybe ask the source to stop and not the side effect
So am I to take this as an admission from you that you cannot stop yourself, and that it is therefor all of our responsibilities to change the circumstances of your environment for you to stop this childish tantrum?
No your twisting my words- just because what I'm saying is an effect and she is why I say it does not mean shit- it is hypocritical to say to me to shut up but nothing to lena who keeps egging me on
It takes two to keep this going, and either stepping out should be enough to stop it. By choosing not to step back out of it yourself out of pride you're allowing this to continue as well.
Also i did initially step out of it, but she kept trying to start shit and then sayin that br reconsidered and well i can never keep my mouth shut about people being blatantly manipulated and misled.
In her version you haven't so she'll only listen if we accept this part of the narrative for the sake of argument.
To do otherwise will just snag on "did not, did too", where instead she could perhaps learn how to let go, not let it get to her so much that someone out there feels smugly.
You don't know how to let go beyond screaming at the source of it.
I will when she shuts up. Maybe ask the source to stop and not the side effect
So am I to take this as an admission from you that you cannot stop yourself, and that it is therefor all of our responsibilities to change the circumstances of your environment for you to stop this childish tantrum?
No your twisting my words- just because what I'm saying is an effect and she is why I say it does not mean shit- it is hypocritical to say to me to shut up but nothing to lena who keeps egging me on
It takes two to keep this going, and either stepping out should be enough to stop it. By choosing not to step back out of it yourself out of pride you're allowing this to continue as well.
Also i did initially step out of it, but she kept trying to start shit and then sayin that br reconsidered and well i can never keep my mouth shut about people being blatantly manipulated and misled.
In her version you haven't so she'll only listen if we accept this part of the narrative for the sake of argument.
To do otherwise will just snag on "did not, did too", where instead she could perhaps learn how to let go, not let it get to her so much that someone out there feels smugly.
Give me a break. Just lay off.
It's not all about you,
In fact you addressed me in em
The one where I had forgotten that you were pro physical abuse?
Two years ago, I no longer am, I was 19 you 51 year old hag. Pro spanking
Spanking is physical abuse
Spanking is not physical abuse. I'm starting to question of you werr actually sexually abused as a kid or did you pull a blanc. Its pathetic to take attention away from real abuse victims.
Spanking is physical abuse- it's the loss of control of an adult letting out the frustrations on a child. You talk to them and make them understand what they did is bad- with words.
There is a difference between methodical spanking and crazy abuse. The parent should spank with love and feel empathy for the child that is being spanked, instead of releasing his anger.
"Boo hoo i was spanked as a kid i was abused! If thats the case, most of us have been abused!" makes people take real abuse less seriously.
How do you hit a child physically with love and empathy?
Spanking is physical Emotional reaction, and the emotion is not one of love.
You don't know how to let go beyond screaming at the source of it.
I will when she shuts up. Maybe ask the source to stop and not the side effect
So am I to take this as an admission from you that you cannot stop yourself, and that it is therefor all of our responsibilities to change the circumstances of your environment for you to stop this childish tantrum?
No your twisting my words- just because what I'm saying is an effect and she is why I say it does not mean shit- it is hypocritical to say to me to shut up but nothing to lena who keeps egging me on
It takes two to keep this going, and either stepping out should be enough to stop it. By choosing not to step back out of it yourself out of pride you're allowing this to continue as well.
Also i did initially step out of it, but she kept trying to start shit and then sayin that br reconsidered and well i can never keep my mouth shut about people being blatantly manipulated and misled.
In her version you haven't so she'll only listen if we accept this part of the narrative for the sake of argument.
To do otherwise will just snag on "did not, did too", where instead she could perhaps learn how to let go, not let it get to her so much that someone out there feels smugly.Give me a break. Just lay off
You're so emotionally exhausted you just want this all to stop so you don't have to deal with it. That's understandable, but you're doing no favors to your wife by trying to silence everyone else for her sake so you can get some peace.
It's not all about you,
In fact you addressed me in em
The one where I had forgotten that you were pro physical abuse?
Two years ago, I no longer am, I was 19 you 51 year old hag. Pro spanking
Spanking is physical abuse
Spanking is not physical abuse. I'm starting to question of you werr actually sexually abused as a kid or did you pull a blanc. Its pathetic to take attention away from real abuse victims.
Spanking is physical abuse- it's the loss of control of an adult letting out the frustrations on a child. You talk to them and make them understand what they did is bad- with words.
There is a difference between methodical spanking and crazy abuse. The parent should spank with love and feel empathy for the child that is being spanked, instead of releasing his anger.
"Boo hoo i was spanked as a kid i was abused! If thats the case, most of us have been abused!" makes people take real abuse less seriously.
How do you hit a child physically with love and empathy?
Spanking is physical Emotional reaction, and the emotion is not one of love.
It's called operant conditioning, to teach the child that there are consequences. Even when you're filled with love, you shouldn't spoil the kid. When you teach kids, you act on reason, not emotion.
I wouldn't trust you to raise a kid if you act your emotions around them, without giving them any order. You're the adult, not the kid.
