Shouldn't the principal of charity be applied to everyone or shit wait is that
There's another word or phrase for this but I can't remember how it goes
Oh, so I guess since we should be giving everyone the benefit of the doubt, instead of using reasonable social observation, you ought to apologize to Shifty.~
That's the fuckin word!!
I did initially apologize to them but then scar kept happening and I am pretty biased cos Xadem is someone i considered at the time my friend but also there's a lot a red string and they aren't doing anything to help with it.
lol You don't have to explain yourself. You know I don't disagree. Or if you're just using that as an argument for benefit of the doubt, you still stopped giving it the benefit of the doubt at some point, based on reasonable observation, so it's kind of moot.
Yes.
How about you? Are you a bad person?
What did you eat today?
I don’t wanna bring you down but yes, you are a mix of someone who is angry and bad. Your rampage against Med makes no sense because even if Med hypothetically is a bad person, that doesn’t make Chapo a good person, who you protect like he was the victim. At least if you were parcial, admitting what a nasty person he also is with the whole mental game on Med, I would say you are somewhat lawful good like me. However it’s not your case, you are bad, but you are not beyond salvation.
I am in total agreement that I am a bad person, i have also said that med and chapo are bad people but that's just my view of them.
Are you a bad person waltz?
No, I don't consider myself bad, I am not angry at the world or anyone, my parents raised me well and were super nice to me when I was young, I have my ups and downs but I always try to walk the good walk. I am not infallible. You should not accept being or owning the label of a bad person. The only one losing in the end it's you.
Losing is how to grow. Someone who insists that they are always winning won't ever see that someone is better than them and worth surpassing, won't ever be corrected out of poorly cobbled together ideas, won't be able to handle a loss when it happens to the point of being a sore loser in shock (usually to the point of denial over the loss)...
...I typically see narcissists say they're always winning, and if not they insist that they are the biggest loser so that they are still first place in something without needing to measure by how much. It supports one of the laziest life-climbs, directly inhibiting one's mean of learning what's outside of ourselves.
Winning can be comfortable, confirming the time you put in to earn it in ways that mean more if you have a history of losses, while losing shows you what the others did to beat you, offering a learning curve. This is why having a legit Rival can push for growth through conflict to an insane degree if both are otherwise motivated enough to snowball off each other.
Losing is how to grow. Someone who insists that they are always winning won't ever see that someone is better than them and worth surpassing, won't ever be corrected out of poorly cobbled together ideas, won't be able to handle a loss when it happens to the point of being a sore loser in shock (usually to the point of denial over the loss)...
...I typically see narcissists say they're always winning, and if not they insist that they are the biggest loser so that they are still first place in something without needing to measure by how much. It supports one of the laziest life-climbs, directly inhibiting one's mean of learning what's outside of ourselves.
Winning can be comfortable, confirming the time you put in to earn it in ways that mean more if you have a history of losses, while losing shows you what the others did to beat you, offering a learning curve. This is why having a legit Rival can push for growth through conflict to an insane degree if both are otherwise motivated enough to snowball off each other.
"I might be a loser at life, but at least I can point out your flaws on a sociopath forum by writing long paragraphs. Fixating on other peoples flaws means now I can forget about my mimimum wage job and my suicide attempts and that I'm a total failure!"
Losing is how to grow. Someone who insists that they are always winning won't ever see that someone is better than them and worth surpassing, won't ever be corrected out of poorly cobbled together ideas, won't be able to handle a loss when it happens to the point of being a sore loser in shock (usually to the point of denial over the loss)...
...I typically see narcissists say they're always winning, and if not they insist that they are the biggest loser so that they are still first place in something without needing to measure by how much. It supports one of the laziest life-climbs, directly inhibiting one's mean of learning what's outside of ourselves.
Winning can be comfortable, confirming the time you put in to earn it in ways that mean more if you have a history of losses, while losing shows you what the others did to beat you, offering a learning curve. This is why having a legit Rival can push for growth through conflict to an insane degree if both are otherwise motivated enough to snowball off each other."I might be a loser at life, but at least I can point out your flaws on a sociopath forum by writing long paragraphs. Fixating on other peoples flaws means now I can forget about my mimimum wage job and my suicide attempts and that I'm a total failure!"
Yes precisely, except I'm a leech off of the government and consider a willingness to fail to be less failure than failing to even get to the point of failure at all.
Losing is how to grow. Someone who insists that they are always winning won't ever see that someone is better than them and worth surpassing, won't ever be corrected out of poorly cobbled together ideas, won't be able to handle a loss when it happens to the point of being a sore loser in shock (usually to the point of denial over the loss)...
...I typically see narcissists say they're always winning, and if not they insist that they are the biggest loser so that they are still first place in something without needing to measure by how much. It supports one of the laziest life-climbs, directly inhibiting one's mean of learning what's outside of ourselves.
Winning can be comfortable, confirming the time you put in to earn it in ways that mean more if you have a history of losses, while losing shows you what the others did to beat you, offering a learning curve. This is why having a legit Rival can push for growth through conflict to an insane degree if both are otherwise motivated enough to snowball off each other."I might be a loser at life, but at least I can point out your flaws on a sociopath forum by writing long paragraphs. Fixating on other peoples flaws means now I can forget about my mimimum wage job and my suicide attempts and that I'm a total failure!"
Yes precisely, except I'm a leech off of the government and consider a willingness to fail to be less failure than failing to even get to the point of failure at all.
No you don't. You hate yourself and wish you were successful. Thus the suicide attempts and attempts to escape reality by bullying blanc and cs.
Losing is how to grow. Someone who insists that they are always winning won't ever see that someone is better than them and worth surpassing, won't ever be corrected out of poorly cobbled together ideas, won't be able to handle a loss when it happens to the point of being a sore loser in shock (usually to the point of denial over the loss)...
...I typically see narcissists say they're always winning, and if not they insist that they are the biggest loser so that they are still first place in something without needing to measure by how much. It supports one of the laziest life-climbs, directly inhibiting one's mean of learning what's outside of ourselves.
Winning can be comfortable, confirming the time you put in to earn it in ways that mean more if you have a history of losses, while losing shows you what the others did to beat you, offering a learning curve. This is why having a legit Rival can push for growth through conflict to an insane degree if both are otherwise motivated enough to snowball off each other."I might be a loser at life, but at least I can point out your flaws on a sociopath forum by writing long paragraphs. Fixating on other peoples flaws means now I can forget about my mimimum wage job and my suicide attempts and that I'm a total failure!"
Yes precisely, except I'm a leech off of the government and consider a willingness to fail to be less failure than failing to even get to the point of failure at all.
No you don't. You hate yourself and wish you were successful.
I've since sat here and adjusted my priorities, what constitutes success when it comes to the perception of my quality of life. I'd always wanted to work simply so I could sustain myself and afford things I'd enjoy to help pass the time until death, even as a kid, but now I've found myself with the time to do things on my own schedule with the government paying for it like some sort of sponsor (of disorder).
Strangely enough, this failing of mine was what got me closer to the life I'd wanted, but without all that "You need to be a success through jobs" Capricornian nonsense I was otherwise being fed non-stop.
These days I'd rather just be happy within the constraints I've been given, to grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference. I'm not really complaining as much, and said complaints were mostly rooting from having been sold that to not work is to be homeless, which ramped up my symptoms to stupid degrees.
I was initially pushed with the idea of "If you don't get through college, you'll work for fast food, or Walmart!" as the threat... then I graduated college and worked at a grocery store, a few restaurants, and serving free samples at Walmart. I'm sure you can see how that conflict was fucking with my head when the punishment I was promised followed the things I was told to do. It was an entitlement issue, one I've progressively shaken off with time as I see that my current prison of constraints is cozier without it.
The life of a shut in has proven to be a comfortable one.
Thus the suicide attempts and attempts to escape reality by bullying blanc and cs.
You sure you aren't projecting why you bully people and don't let others get to know the real you?
Hate to break it to you bro, but you're trying to escape reality harder than the resident schizo.
to grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.
to grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.Love the Serenity “prayer” Turncoat, it’s one of my favorites :) it’s called prayer but it’s not religious
I put it there for irony.
