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lol for our audience: My bad.

Salon doesn't sound so awful. But if it's smthg TPG noticed, it must be hopelessly mainstream.

More like O magazine, maybe?

 

I think I'll go and read it just bc he doesn't like it  :D

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TPG said: 
Xena said: 

And you sound like you're ignoring the vast majority of my post content again, including the 20 some odd minutes of Nightwish opus.

You also sound like you're tryinta start shit by comparing me to some rag I don't read bc I'm not interested.

What is that anyway? Smthg like TMZ?

lol don't answer that bc Idgaf.

 

 

What I'm saying is that narcissists create their own demons by believing themselves better than everybody else.

ddd is as bad as any narc I've seen here for that.

People dislike and dismiss him bc he's rude to them, and then he whines about how lonely he is.

 

I love the Life Sciences bc they open our eyes to the reality of the dust from whence we came and the dust to whence we will all return.

Especially doucherags like you, who spend your every waking minute on some forum for assholes tryinta pick fights with everybody who stops by.

 

It's called a humility builder.

No wonder you have such a problem with it lol

 tldr kill yourself

 

lol no u

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uncalled personal attacks and ramblings usually point to a deeper issue. also, I am not a narc, so ask yourself why you project that bullshit on me. i am also not rude in general. 

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See? I give you sound advice and you accuse me of attacking you.

And yes. During at least 4 out of  fewer than 8 exchanges, you were rude. You also took a rapist's side when I argued with him.

One time, you even went so far as to tell me you weren't my therapist and therefore would not be framing your shit politely bc you didn't think it was your job to mollycoddle my 'fragile PD soul' or some bs like that. And iirc the context was a discussion about rape. Like you think I'm disordered bc I stated that rape was wrong.

 

You're the one with issues, dude.

And you wouldn't be so effing lonely if you'd adjust your moral compass and quit blaming everybody else when your shitbag behaviour comes back to bite you on the ass.

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Xena said: 

You also took a rapist's side when I argued with him.

 

 based

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ddddddd said: 

And that works for you? 

 Yes. When I was younger I really hated being alone. I found myself clinging to people who were bad for me just to avoid it, and anytime I was alone I was usually participating in self-destructive behavior to keep myself from having to focus on the fact I was alone with someone I didnt like. I went through some intense situations in 2017 that  forced me to be alone with myself to a breaking point where I really looked at what I didnt like about my life and  about myself and realized most of my problems were caused by the toxic people I clung to. Getting away from them forced more time along with myself. Enough that I started changing into someone I like better. Now I've reached a point where I prefer my own company over that of most others. With the exception of Alice, I prefer not to spend more than 2 hours at a time socializing with anyone or it just becomes draining. 

 

 

Learning to be content with yourself. 

 Even thought PP is the worst person to give that advice as her own personality seems dependent to shine, aka, she needs Alice for example, I have to agree with her.

 I'm not dependent on Alice, I just talk about her a lot bc I like her so much and get so excited about her.

 

 

Learning to be content with yourself. 

Loneliness as the starved appetite for socializing is too natural for this to be enough, unless they have social issues inherently where the appetite wasn't as strong in the first place. 

I'll say the Captain Obvious answer: If you're lonely find some people. 

 D7 stated he feels lonely even with people. That's a whole different kind of loneliness. That's the kind of internal loneliness I described above.

Sc is pretty boring.
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haha ok nvm xena. i'm and idiot for expecting some objective observation from you xD instead what I get is some butt hurt bpd shit from 3 weeks ago where my profession triggered your childish idealizations of your therapists. speaking of narcs, pretty self-centered of you, no? you know your therapist is not supposed to be your mommy, right? at one point you have to face and integrate reality. nobody is responsible for sugar-coating the truth for your fragile soul. no, my profession does not make me responsible for you. 

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ddddddd said: 

And that works for you? 

 Yes. When I was younger I really hated being alone. I found myself clinging to people who were bad for me just to avoid it, and anytime I was alone I was usually participating in self-destructive behavior to keep myself from having to focus on the fact I was alone with someone I didnt like. I went through some intense situations in 2017 that  forced me to be alone with myself to a breaking point where I really looked at what I didnt like about my life and  about myself and realized most of my problems were caused by the toxic people I clung to. Getting away from them forced more time along with myself. Enough that I started changing into someone I like better. Now I've reached a point where I prefer my own company over that of most others. With the exception of Alice, I prefer not to spend more than 2 hours at a time socializing with anyone or it just becomes draining. 

 

 

Learning to be content with yourself. 

 Even thought PP is the worst person to give that advice as her own personality seems dependent to shine, aka, she needs Alice for example, I have to agree with her.

 I'm not dependent on Alice, I just talk about her a lot bc I like her so much and get so excited about her.

 

 

Learning to be content with yourself. 

Loneliness as the starved appetite for socializing is too natural for this to be enough, unless they have social issues inherently where the appetite wasn't as strong in the first place. 

I'll say the Captain Obvious answer: If you're lonely find some people. 

 D7 stated he feels lonely even with people. That's a whole different kind of loneliness. That's the kind of internal loneliness I described above.

 Thanks your for your input. I get what you are saying. What I am wondering is if there are things that really need other people in order to be experienced. For example intimacy. I don't know how one would experience this by oneself. 

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Um... dude. If somebody calls you rude for saying it's ok to rape and murder, it's not a sign of bpd, you moron.

Rape and murder are against the law and carry the harshest penalties under most criminal codes the world over.

Duh.

 

Therapists are not supposed to idealize criminal acts, you lying idiot.

You're not my mommy. Ew lol the thought disgusts me.

And all I expect from most humans on the internet or wherever is courtesy and an absence of homicidal ideation.

 

Exactly how is it sugar coating anything to refrain from saying things like "rape is good bc all women are whores"?

You misogynistic piece of shit you will be lonely for the rest of your life  :D

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I'm not pro rape or murder. And one thing I am also not is being interested in fighting against your low level tier straw men. 

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