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Honey said: 

 

Xadem said: 

1 is ok 

2 if openly polly makes you a slut, if cheating makes you a piece of shit

3 if openly polly makes you a slut, if cheating makes you a piece of shit

4 at this point these aren't even girlfriends you are just trying to fill a void inside yourself with sex and people

5 at this point these aren't even girlfriends you are just trying to fill a void inside yourself with sex and people

 1 is the most you could form a real relationship with. 3 is max that could possibly be considered "girlfriends" in shallow "relationships" with no substance. Any more than that and you are just a brojen person returning to the same fwb to numb pain inside you actually need therapy for.



 Why do you assume that a person who prefers polyamorous relationships must be broken?  What constitutes a "real" relationship that you feel excludes non-monogamous couples?  And is it about more than the sex?  Like, do you think a swinger couple aren't in a "real" relationship?

 I said broken comes after polly. No one can form a deep romantic relationship with that many people at the same time. Then it's not romance, the person is just a flirt. Intamacy doesnt include infinite people. Saying having even 3 partners counts as relationships was a stretch in my opinion but shit, maybe they've got a day of the week system or something.

 

Look at polygamamous marriages. Usually there are 1-2 favorites and the rest are baby incubators trapped in loveless marriages.

 

If intamacy cannot be achieved in a "relationship" than there must be another reason for it. Sex addiction, fear of being alone, insecurity leading to sexual promiscuity as a way to prove one's worth.

 

All the things that make a relationship strong require forming a unique bond with your partner and trying to form that kind of bond with multiple partners weakens the stregth of them all.

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maybe there is a grilfend barrier where if u get x amount it grows exponentially

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Xadem said: 

maybe there is a grilfend barrier where if u get x amount it grows exponentially

 You should get cats, they work like that. Once you get one suddenly more show up or people give you some. 

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https://medium.com/be-unique/why-can-a-man-marry-four-wives-in-islam-309305e9cfd6

get four. or get an american girl which will count as 4.

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I would join Islam but I don't wanna be brown 😔

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why not? it would match ur personality

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Xadem said: 

maybe there is a grilfend barrier where if u get x amount it grows exponentially

Polyamory agrees with you, as does Orgy logic. 

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Yucky 

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Xadem said: 

maybe there is a grilfend barrier where if u get x amount it grows exponentially

 it actually kinda works like that, when u get a girl every whore tries to flirt with you to "steal" you from your girl and be better than her

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Xadem said: 

maybe there is a grilfend barrier where if u get x amount it grows exponentially

 it actually kinda works like that, when u get a girl every whore tries to flirt with you to "steal" you from your girl and be better than her

 Yup! 

and the thing with borderlines is if youre at least decently attractive everyone wants to fuck you because we're so sexy including all of our friends and so many of his friends we have hung out with have either tried to steal me or him or get us to cheat. girls act lesbian for me and guys act gay for him even tho we are straight bc we are so good at connecting with others emotionally and making them feel special and seen and understood

 

and people love abusing borderlines too and making us emotional which also plays into the temptation to try to break us up / steal one of us away / get us to cheat

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