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its annoying to have to be the strong one when I'm so used to being weak but I def have it in me now

here's the thing I can't be a sugar mama because my bpd trust issues cant handle the possibility of my bae getting high and cheating on me behind my back while I'm at work

we both have to monitor the fuck out of each other in order to feel secure and stable enough to accomplish anything so we both have to be in it together or neither of us will survive meaning we would both have to have jobs also I would be turned off if he didnt have one I have certain requirements that I need to stay attracted to someone

soo this means we would have to work close to the same hours at close to the same times lol aaand and now I just realized he is working less hours at his old job and not really wanting to work for that company anymore and spend all his time with me because he is scared of me cheating on him and getting high I think i just solved what is going on

#yayborderlinepdissofun

It's not that hard to work similar hours and same days we will figure it out

our relationship works best when we are equals on everything anyway it's very balancing and stabilizing

I hope maybe we can both heal from bpd and be less insecure some day not sure if its possible

I literally just solved the problem tho finally cool this is why it helps to write everything out a la blanc

It sounds like this is something more than you will singlehandedly be able to push him to. If he needs to direct his adhd suggest he talk to his therapists/ psychatrists about techniques to stay on task and put down distractions like youtube or videogames. They may be able to give him professional guidance

just give it some time, I'm sure he'll apply his sexy street gangster skills soon enough

You may also have to accept the things you can't change about him, much like I'm sure he's had to accept about you in return. 

lol we could just stay in the basement forever.........

I shall switch from forever alone to basement dweller lol

it's hard because we both want to be around eachother constantly we are way too obsessed with and attached to each other lol

*few minutes apart* where is bae? have to find bae ok found bae am with bae now all is right in the world:p

goodgirl said: 

lol we could just stay in the basement forever.........

I shall switch from forever alone to basement dweller lol

It's still better than being alone. 

*few minutes apart* where is bae? have to find bae ok found bae am with bae now all is right in the world:p

Ahh young love, it's nice and distracting when it's still fresh. 

Just accept him for how he is. 

Trust me. If you don’t, you’ll lose em.