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PalePeach said: 

It's better if you love the person. Meaningless sex is just that, meaningless.

Love is one of those words that seems to ring hollow to me. It gets thrown around a lot. But it seems like nobody actually experiences it, they just mimic what they hear in books and movies. It's like the concept of that uberman lifestyle, nobody can really achieve it.

What about with your wife? If you dont feel that connection with your wife you married the wrong person

I married the right person. I feel very comfortable with my wife, and I feel a sense of duty toward her. The sex is pretty good, too, although I don't feel anything besides the physical experience when cumming, and maybe a sense of familiarity.

A spiritual deep connection with the person you love. Its more than just wam bam orgasm. You make an emotional connection and are very open and its fun to talk and be yourself and experience this *with* the other person as well  rather than just jackhammering until you cum without any regard for your partner. Might as well just masturbate and save the other person the trouble if that's your approach to sex.

I care about my partner's pleasure. I just don't feel any connection, it's like there's nothing there besides the person that I see. The same applies to every person. What kind of emotional connection do you and Alice have?

Palepeach said:

I FEEL LIKE MY HEART IS GONNA EXPLODE WITH HAPPY YOU DUMB TWAT, HOW ARE YOU NOT PICKING THAT UP FROM WHAT I SAID ARE YOU AUTISTIC 

Major Major said:

Heart is a metaphor  You're just picking up this shit from poets and books"

PalePeach said:

Major, you cold unfeeling dead fish, you can physically feel love in your chest

Why do you think all the "generic" books and poets use the same descriptions and metaphors?

They are trying to describe what they are experiencing

Congratulations Major, either you are trapped in a loveless marriage or you are SC's first confirmed sociopath.

Major Major said: 

PalePeach said: 

It's better if you love the person. Meaningless sex is just that, meaningless.

Love is one of those words that seems to ring hollow to me. It gets thrown around a lot. But it seems like nobody actually experiences it,

People do experience it, just not you apparently 

they just mimic what they hear in books and movies. It's like the concept of that uberman lifestyle, nobody can really achieve it.

What about with your wife? If you dont feel that connection with your wife you married the wrong person

I married the right person. I feel very comfortable with my wife, and I feel a sense of duty toward her. The sex is pretty good, too, although I don't feel anything besides the physical experience when cumming, and maybe a sense of familiarity.

Once again, i think you are emotionally incapable of love aparently. Also you make a lot of sexual comments to alice and I online so beyond not loving your wife it seems you dont even respect her either

What kind of emotional connection do you and Alice have?

 You keep asking this and i told you i cant explian it. How can one explain an emotion to a person who is aparently incapable of feeling it? 

PalePeach said: 

Nah, its a feeling. I cant describe blue to a blind person. If you've never felt love i cant describe the feeling to you. Like I said before, its like my heart is gonna explode from happy. 

IMHO you're making this more complicated that it really is. What you're describing is ecstacy. My suspicion is that as soon as your happy hormones are no longer there you move on like those monogamous hamsters in that oxytocin removal experiment.

Every time i see her face and every time i hear her name and when i smell her or listen to her breathe when she sleeps or any moment she crosses my mind

Have you been together for more than three years? That's usually the cycle when humans are biologically "in love," in terms of the hormonal response. I don't see this as a connection, but as happy brain chemicals making decisions for you. There's no real emotional connection there.

Are you autistic? Im asking this literally, not trying to insult you.

No, I'm not.

 You might be an actual sociopath if you can't even comprehend love

I haven't seen any evidence that anyone comprehends what people describe as love.

Major Major said: 

I haven't seen any evidence that anyone comprehends what people describe as love.

 Peach: i feel love

Major: i dont believe you

^your logic right now

PalePeach said: 

Palepeach said:

I FEEL LIKE MY HEART IS GONNA EXPLODE WITH HAPPY YOU DUMB TWAT, HOW ARE YOU NOT PICKING THAT UP FROM WHAT I SAID ARE YOU AUTISTIC 

 

Major Major said:

Heart is a metaphor  You're just picking up this shit from poets and books"

 

PalePeach said:

Major, you cold unfeeling dead fish, you can physically feel love in your chest

Why do you think all the "generic" books and poets use the same descriptions and metaphors?

They are trying to describe what they are experiencing

I replied to this in the chat; the reason books and poets use similar language is because they copy each other. As soon as you explore cultures that were disconnected from these poets and books, the expressions of love become different. My take is that it's a lie that the western media keeps feeding us, and everyone collectively buys into it.

Similar things happen to superstitious beliefs or alien abduction stories; the narrative changes based on media. The fact that several people describe one thing similarly doesn't mean it exists.

PalePeach said: 

People do experience it, just not you apparently 

Once again, i think you are emotionally incapable of love aparently. Also you make a lot of sexual comments to alice and I online so beyond not loving your wife it seems you dont even respect her either

Wow. The comments are not meant seriously. I need privacy from my wife, my family, my friends, and everyone else for that matter, because life will be boring if I stick to one role. I respect my family and my wife, but it doesn't matter what I do online as long as I don't hurt them. If they never find out, I don't see it as an issue. I'm certain Alice has things she wants to keep a secret from you too if telling you would make her limit her behaviour or who she is.

You keep asking this and i told you i cant explian it. How can one explain an emotion to a person who is aparently incapable of feeling it? 

With objective evidence.

I pity you Major. I don't have time to waste trying to explain emotions to you, im done responding to this thread and im gonna go enjoy my deep emotional connection with my gf instead 

PalePeach said: 

I pity you Major. I don't have time to waste trying to explain emotions to you, im done responding to this thread and im gonna go enjoy my deep emotional connection with my gf instead 

Bye, enjoy.

Next?

Major Major said: 

I'm certain Alice has things she wants to keep a secret from you too if telling you would make her limit her behaviour or who she is.

 See that is another aspect of it you don't understand. Part of love is being able to be exactly who you are and being open with the person. Not having to hide anything because you are a unit, a team. A romantic partner is an extension of yourself, not an accessory to your life.