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Explain.

 She trusts me with her secrets and I trust her with mine. Also we touch each other's private parts :)

I could be touching your and Alice's private parts

I guarantee you couldn't 

and I doubt we'd be any closer than we are now.

Case and point, absolutely no one would be touching either of us without the level of closeness we are with each other- and we are not the type to develop an emotional relationship with a 3rd.

I'm not really talking about that kind of connection....

It's sad you dont see sex as a spiritual act between people who love each other, but I hope one day you can experience that kind of happiness and love

 

 

 

Gtg afk for a bit ill answer the rest of your post when i get back

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I feel personally attacked by your intellect.

Cool story, bitch.

I'm trying hard to be funny but I'm really not

I know you're back and all, but please tune down the retardness, I'm not in the mood.

 Ah yes, sorry, I forgot the world revolves around your mood. Please forgive my intrusion over your very serious thread on serious issues. It is extremely rude of me to come barging in and express myself. I am indeed very sorry, and sincerely apologise. I honestly hope the next replies will give you the answers you seek from our enlightened community. 

 

And I'm not trying to be funny, I am completely serious and genuine, I don't understand where that came from. This is my serious and genuine tone and style of typing, what seems to be the problem with it might I ask? What sort of connotation are you giving to my words? It clearly is not meant that way, and I do apologise for any attacks you might perceive.

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It's sad you dont see sex as a spiritual act between people who love each other, but I hope one day you can experience that kind of happiness and love

I see it as an act of mutual pleasure. I was extremely disappointed back when I found out how ordinary sex is after all that talk in the movies about how it lets you black out and ascend to Heaven, get closer to God, and what-not.. If that's all true, then I do hope that I will find something like that one day, but I think that's just people grossly over-hyping sex. My Christian God tells me not to have sex, so if anything, I see it as an act of sin.

Besides the orgasmic physical experience when you cum, do you experience something else when having sex?

 

Gtg afk for a bit ill answer the rest of your post when i get back

I can wait.

last edit on 7/8/2020 9:21:04 PM
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Ah yes, sorry, I forgot the world revolves around your mood. Please forgive my intrusion over your very serious thread on serious issues. It is extremely rude of me to come barging in and express myself. I am indeed very sorry, and sincerely apologise. I honestly hope the next replies will give you the answers you seek from our enlightened community. 

The world doesn't revolve around my mood, but I thought that you would show me enough respect not to annoy me and shit-smear my topic if I told you that I wasn't down with being a retard today. I was wrong.

last edit on 7/8/2020 9:28:23 PM
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Ah yes, sorry, I forgot the world revolves around your mood. Please forgive my intrusion over your very serious thread on serious issues. It is extremely rude of me to come barging in and express myself. I am indeed very sorry, and sincerely apologise. I honestly hope the next replies will give you the answers you seek from our enlightened community. 

The world doesn't revolved around my mood, but I expected that you would show me enough respect not to annoy me and shit-smear my topic when I told you that I wasn't down for being a retard today. I was wrong.

 Ah yes, I do apologise for not showing that amount of respect that was expected of me. I must be such a rude and crass individual. Might I point out that I'm bumping your thread and you're getting more hits from people curious about what it's all about this way? Might I point out that me talking here is actually beneficial for your purpose? Honestly, if you shift your angle from a conflict centred one to a pragmatic one, you would be thankful for me. I feel underappreciated. You need to appreciate me more.

But that is a very instrumental approach indeed. What matters is the big words.

What matters is RESPECT, COMPASSION, BASIC DAMN HUMAN DECENCY. Yes. Those always matter. Expectations to be met and upheld.

Truthfully annoying you is not my intention, perhaps you should pick up some of my chromosomes so we could be retarded together, what do you say. It's a free offer, I have plenty to go around. HERE HAVE SOME CHROMOSOMES hahahahahahahahaha.

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I'm genuinely curious, how does it feel to connect when you connect with Alice? Do you genuinely feel closer to someone when they tell you their secrets? Is it a sense of familiarity, does it feel good, make you feel secure...?

It's love man, how do you describe love? It's like, this is my team mate in life. She's the mkst wonderful person and I love spending time with her, and it feels good to know we are partners working together for our goals for the future. Yes sharing secrets feels good, because it feels good to have a high level of trust and understanding with a person. A random coworker telling secrets isnt the same as a romantic partner telling secrets. Sharing secrets with a romantic partner is much more intimate, its getting to know them on a deeper level than what they show others. 

I know this forum is pretty toxic and the people here will likely use your answer against you, but I'd genuinely like to know. I suspect I'm emotionally stunted, because I don't feel anything besides a sense of responsibility towards anyone.

 One day you will meet someone who rocks you world and you will understand. There is no feeling quite like the feeling of meeting someone who's personallity you love, and also being able to build a foundation of trust with that person and build a stable plan for the future with that amazing person. It's pretty cool when you are obsessed with someone and want to spend all your tine with them and instead of being creeped out they also want to spend all their time with you. 

Sc is pretty boring.
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It's love man, how do you describe love? It's like, this is my team mate in life. She's the mkst wonderful person and I love spending time with her, and it feels good to know we are partners working together for our goals for the future. Yes sharing secrets feels good, because it feels good to have a high level of trust and understanding with a person. A random coworker telling secrets isnt the same as a romantic partner telling secrets. Sharing secrets with a romantic partner is much more intimate, its getting to know them on a deeper level than what they show others.

Can you give some examples. Like, a moment when you felt close to her. This sounds generic. I've shared a lot of secrets with people and it seems to mostly make them awkward, except for a few people. Maybe our understanding of intimate are just completely different, maybe that's the issue. What is it about a secret that makes you feel close?

 

 One day you will meet someone who rocks you world and you will understand.

My partner will be disappointed if that happens.

 

It's pretty cool when you are obsessed with someone and want to spend all your tine with them and instead of being creeped out they also want to spend all their time with you.

It's cool, yeah. But I don't see any connection there. I see two people with mutual interests. It's like a transaction.

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I see it as an act of mutual pleasure. I was extremely disappointed back when I found out how ordinary sex is after all that talk in the movies

It's better if you love the person. Meaningless sex is just that, meaningless.

 My Christian God tells me not to have sex, so if anything, I see it as an act of sin.

What about with your wife? If you dont feel that connection with your wife you married the wrong person

Besides the orgasmic physical experience when you cum, do you experience something else when having sex?

A spiritual deep connection with the person you love. Its more than just wam bam orgasm. You make an emotional connection and are very open and its fun to talk and be yourself and experience this *with* the other person as well  rather than just jackhammering until you cum without any regard for your partner. Might as well just masturbate and save the other person the trouble if that's your approach to sex.

Sc is pretty boring.
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All I do is feel deep intense rollercoaster connections with others hereI HATE IT

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It's love man, how do you describe love? It's like, this is my team mate in life. She's the mkst wonderful person and I love spending time with her, and it feels good to know we are partners working together for our goals for the future. Yes sharing secrets feels good, because it feels good to have a high level of trust and understanding with a person. A random coworker telling secrets isnt the same as a romantic partner telling secrets. Sharing secrets with a romantic partner is much more intimate, its getting to know them on a deeper level than what they show others.

Can you give some examples. 

Nah, its a feeling. I cant describe blue to a blind person. If you've never felt love i cant describe the feeling to you. Like I said before, its like my heart is gonna explode from happy. 

Like, a moment when you felt close to her. 

 Every time i see her face and every time i hear her name and when i smell her or listen to her breathe when she sleeps or any moment she crosses my mind

This sounds generic. I've shared a lot of secrets with people and it seems to mostly make them awkward, except for a few people.

Are you autistic? Im asking this literally, not trying to insult you.

Maybe our understanding of intimate are just completely different, maybe that's the issue. What is it about a secret that makes you feel close?

 One day you will meet someone who rocks you world and you will understand.

My partner will be disappointed if that happens.

It's pretty cool when you are obsessed with someone and want to spend all your tine with them and instead of being creeped out they also want to spend all their time with you.

It's cool, yeah. But I don't see any connection there. I see two people with mutual interests. It's like a transaction.

 You might be an actual sociopath if you can't even comprehend love

Sc is pretty boring.
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