Exactly, not right now.
If you were though, what are your terms and restrictions? What can they do and not do as your "other"?
Well, that would have to be discussed between my significant other and I. I also think it'd be something that'd need to be explored along the way in the relationship, rather than straight up a list of all the rules. Obviously, no cheating. I might be down for a threesome or more, but not like a polyamorous relationship, just as like an occasional thing, as long as my partner and I consent.
I wouldn't expect them to do the whole "expected thing of women" if it is a female. If we're living together, then we would have shared responsibilities and take turns doing things. Unless one is comfortable with doing a certain thing always. I guess for the most part I'm a chill person. There are certain kinks and such that if they were into, I can't say I'd be okay with, like anything with infantalism or regarding waste material such as fecal or urine. I also wouldn't be okay with being called daddy, I wouldn't even use the word baby. I use sweetheart, darling, honey.
What about using sex as social liberation?
I know you said "you don't care" about that further along, but what about it's a problem exactly?
I don't view it as a good way of dealing with stress. I feel like using it as such, especially if it's with more than one partner, could be detrimental and bring about feelings of guilt.
What's wrong with having sex outside of labels?
Aren't such labels, I dunno, restrictive towards your own autonomy?
Ignoring whatever odds you have of luring a woman into the clutches of your affections successfully for the sake of discussion, do you choose to not date people from figuring that your own freedoms would be taken from you, yet choose to not date others from figuring that you can't have relations with them without shackles and pre-written, strict terms?
Why can't you just hang out with someone and start making out when the moment feels right? That's often what even shows you your own priorities, opens you up to wounds of the soul that'll grant you more life experience, the risks of life's spark that are necessary to say you're truly living.
Others can, but I'm not really interested in having sex with multiple different people. Maybe at some point, but it really doesn't seem like something healthy.
So I take it you feel the same about factory work, and media jobs in general?
I'm speaking about objectifying and abusing women. I don't see it mentally healthy for the pornstars.
What's wrong with sex as commerce?
Does using someone like that in turn make you feel used?
I wouldn't know if it'd make me feel used. I never fucked a prostitute. I am against it, because I don't view it as healthy. Given how prostitutes are generally treated, and the fact that there are a lot doing it only to survive, I don't view it as a good profession.
Drop the "justs" and elaborate?
What makes it so depraved in the modern age, the availability?
It's depraved being of the hedonistic nature, it's depraved because the fact that sex sells, that women are practically products. It's availability over the internet has made it worse, even kids can easily stumble upon it, and I don't view it as healthy. Sure, kids go through puberty and are going to have thoughts, but there are children who are exposed to it at a younger age. Plus, an addiction can get worse and worse, and become more and more hardcore.
I understand disliking it when it's purely over survival needs, but that view is antiquated. Through media these days, people do it for fun, even as a side job or in many cases for free.
There's much more being traded than just currency when it comes to the body market these days, there's also lifestyles, ideas, that keep it in motion.
It can feel good to be watched, to know you've been, it all depends on your mindset. When handled with poise, it ceases being sad and becomes impassioned art.
I guess it's alright if they aren't doing it for survival, and they aren't being abused by it. Though, I still think it has the potential to harm people who realize that such a lifestyle might not be for them.
This is a terribly uneducated view.
Sexual revolutions are just as important as other kinds, and ignoring it is making you ignorant of the modern techno-renaissance you've found yourself born into.
Your world will be a terrible dull shade of grey if you keep building fences. Why not allow for a little color?
That isn't what I'm saying, sure perhaps with the techno-renaissance it can be worse, because of how wide spread it is.
I was saying in general, if there are still people who are in the porn industry for survival then it's disgusting.
So, like many things, you've externalized and transferred your own self loathing towards a larger concept?
Are you implying that because of my own faults in life, I hate the porn industry or? I don't view my sexual relationships with online girls who had suicidal thoughts as healthy. It might have helped in the moment, but typically both I and the person I did it with felt guilt and regretted it, it was a common theme in my relationships.
Why do you hate incels?
Are you too weak to face the black pill so you'd rather not think about it?
I dislike incels for their sexist views and violence against women on the basis that they are women and would reject them. I'd say sure, physical attractiveness can play a factor but it can vary as some wouldn't care. I think incels need therapy and to be helped.
What was she like?
Depressed and suicidal, she cut herself with razor blades. I almost fucked her, but we did make out and such. I honestly don't remember what things we had in common.
