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Formally quitting substance use


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I did this a few days ago. Told my family about it too, so now I'll look like a whimsical hypocrite if I don't hold to it. You'd all get to make fun of me too. I've been far more useful to those around me, and they seem to appreciate it.

I even got most of my room cleaned up. To give perspective, I let it bomb out for nearly 2 years. It rains through the ceiling and the floor boards are fucked. I'll probably get evicted by our landlord. Regardless, I have a sense of optimism for the first time in a long while.

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That's pretty nice to hear Trypt, wish you a good journey on your new path.

It's weird because I am a drink lover myself, and I feel a bit sad knowing that you will stop with the alcohol. I feel like it's one soldier down. However you gotta do what you gotta do.

Take care.

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Stick to it man, I'm rooting for you. Find something productive to dive into to distract yourself if the craving come.

Glad to hear you have cleaned up your room some, are the piss bottles finally gone?

Sc is pretty boring.
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cool tryp, what caused the decision?

and if you do fall off the wagon, just get right back on. doing less is always better

stopping everything cold turkey is hard and as you know you will go through dopamine withdrawal, so shitty

i find a more mild substitute like coffee helps, also keeping very busy with things you enjoy so you dont get bored

boredom is a killer

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Lame

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I did this a few days ago. Told my family about it too, so now I'll look like a whimsical hypocrite if I don't hold to it. You'd all get to make fun of me too. I've been far more useful to those around me, and they seem to appreciate it.

I even got most of my room cleaned up. To give perspective, I let it bomb out for nearly 2 years. It rains through the ceiling and the floor boards are fucked. I'll probably get evicted by our landlord. Regardless, I have a sense of optimism for the first time in a long while.

 Excellent  :)

The first things you'll notice when the substances are no longer distracting you, and you run out of hobbies and other things to distract yourself will be the tension in some of your relationships. (The same thing happens when people lose weight, finish school or switch tax brackets, bc humans are such petty creatures. Been there done that.) Your friends and family will change for the worst, so don't let any of them drive you back to dependence on your substances again.

You might have to walk away from some for long enough for them to get used to the new you, and from others permanently.

But stick with your goals, and remember that it's them, not you  ;)

 

Fae will be very helpful. Try to spend more time with her if you can.

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Nice bro, your future self will thank you. And if you do ever slip up again, don't stress. Just ride it out and get clean again. 

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I never know how to respond to these sorts of topics. 

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Xena said: 

Fae will be very helpful. Try to spend more time with her if you can.

I'm sorry, come again? 

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I never know how to respond to these sorts of topics. 

 by telling him he will be an empty shell of a person if he tries to sober up so he shouldn't even bother, obviously ;)

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