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I've had some pretty warped views of relationships in the past that still have me questioning how far off I am from the average perspective. I'll put up a series of questions to see if I can gain a reference point. Answer which ever ones you'd like, the whole thing doesn't need to be completed.
1.) On a scale of 1 to 5, 1 being the highest, what is the ideal relevance a relationship would have in your life?
Idk. A 2 or 3. A 1 would feel good, but might be too invested.
2.) What aspect(s) of relationships do you particularly dislike the most
The chance to end one after it and become a relationship(friendship or otherwise). But its not something that would stop me, its just the thing i dislike the most. Other things that are discomforting is having to maintain them, people usually need more feedback then i would give naturally.
3.) What is the main benefit you get/want to get out of relationships?
To feel relaxed that i can trust the person and i can tell them whatever i feel like, as long as i am considerate of their feelings ofc. But i do not have to care if they will judge me behind my back, or be malicious in anyway. And that we can help each other, in anything, as long as we are able to. And that there is forgiveness, if a mistake is done.
Other things like dominant personality on an intimate level, but being an equal in public are a bonus.
4.) Which traits do you personally want the mother/father of your would-be child to have?
I don't know really. I guess something with letting your child do the things they want, within reason. And a child should feel like they can rely on their parents for help and advice. Its a thing that is hard to define exactly and i have not thought about it too much.