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1.) On a scale of 1 to 5, 1 being the highest, what is the ideal relevance a relationship would have in your life?

A 3, I think.

2.) What aspect(s) of relationships do you particularly dislike the most

The arguing and then how obsessive I tend to get. So its mostly I dislike how I become.

3.) What is the main benefit you get/want to get out of relationships?

I'm not sure really. Someone to talk to- I think.

4.) Which traits do you personally want the mother/father of your would-be child to have?

I don't think I want to have a child. 

Systematic stated: source post

I've had some pretty warped views of relationships in the past that still have me questioning how far off I am from the average perspective. I'll put up a series of questions to see if I can gain a reference point. Answer which ever ones you'd like, the whole thing doesn't need to be completed.

I don't think SC will yield "the average perspective". 
 

1.) On a scale of 1 to 5, 1 being the highest, what is the ideal relevance a relationship would have in your life?

Feeling a  5  1, thinking a  4  2.

Edit: Wait, 1's the highest? Fixing. 
 

2.) What aspect(s) of relationships do you particularly dislike the most

Having to care about the other person's pain, especially when I feel responsible for it. Increased vulnerability makes it easier to hurt each other, which can make for horrible misunderstandings and painful mending. 
 

3.) What is the main benefit you get/want to get out of relationships?

Someone who can walk through life with me and participate in cynical commentary on it.
Someone I can share vulnerabilities with, both to them and from them.
Someone who gets me that I can get back.
​Someone willing to pull me by the hair and strike me as a form of flirting. 
Someone that I can share space with without as much social allergy forming.
Someone who can see past my bullshit while I see past theirs.
Someone who can tolerate my crazy whose crazy I can also tolerate.
Someone who can keep my brain buzzing and active instead of stagnant.
Someone who's willing to "Netflix and Chill" alongside other mutual activities. 
Someone I can get close to, who can get close to me. 
Someone who's strong despite the presence of weaknesses. 

Basically, I want another half, as I am less of a person when I am by myself, and those who are within dating range tend to click with me more than I do with others, making for easier communication while giving me more room to express. When I am alone, so much of myself becomes locked away. Around those I'm friendly with I come across as unaffected by things, while those who get closer to me tend to see my sensitivities more blatantly. The two tend to end up confused how one side of things can see me unlike the other.

Easier more consistent sex with someone of compatible kink where time's been spent learning each other's specifics is also a plus. 
 

4.) Which traits do you personally want the mother/father of your would-be child to have?

Compatible differences from myself so that the child can have a well-rounded home life instead of one vision forcefully pushed through two overly similar people. 

Systematic stated: source post

I've had some pretty warped views of relationships in the past that still have me questioning how far off I am from the average perspective. I'll put up a series of questions to see if I can gain a reference point. Answer which ever ones you'd like, the whole thing doesn't need to be completed.

1.) On a scale of 1 to 5, 1 being the highest, what is the ideal relevance a relationship would have in your life?

Umm I guess five.

2.) What aspect(s) of relationships do you particularly dislike the most.

I dislike the anxiety that comes with the responsibilities. I mean people are pretty delicate. I have to make sure I do not hurt them too much during sex. 

3.) What is the main benefit you get/want to get out of relationships?

Sex, cuddling, kissing, sharing secretes, making secretes, being open, having each other's back, helping each other grow, hell insuring neither has to face anything alone, hang out, be chill, share your love, learn about a person, please them, be happy, have the highest highs, have the lowest lows, cry, smile, smile and cry...

FUCK WHY DO I GOT TO EXPLAIN IT?? I MEAN IT'S PRETTY OBVIOUS IT'S ABOUT HAVING THE BESTEST FRIEND IN THE WORLD WHO YOU CAN MAYBE BANG!

4.) Which traits do you personally want the mother/father of your would-be child to have?

I want them to care about the child and me. I think everything else will fall into place...

2-3 out of 5.

I hate the thought of having to actually know the other, when you think about it that could mean tolerating their friends, even parents at times. I would never like a whole person, what happens when they're acting obnoxious? If it means taking the bad with the good that's a shame. 

Having someone else to look at and touch. I would like sex but I can't expect to instantly bed my partner/potential partner. Also I would like someone to bounce off of. By that I mean someone to vent my ideas at, as well as someone to help me when I fuck up or make mistakes in social or formal or legal affairs. I would also like them to not need that much help from me, I wouldn't want that responsibility. 

If I were so have kids by her, I would want her to be capable of raising them on her own, the thought of having a child in my life to deal with is actually vomit-worthy. That said, I do want to pass on my genes. So yeah. 

1.) On a scale of 1 to 5, 1 being the highest, what is the ideal relevance a relationship would have in your life?

1, I've replaced most of my supply from IRL with hobbies that give me the sense of control and worth I was chasing after.

2.) What aspect(s) of relationships do you particularly dislike the most

The games and the drama women make due to their natural emptiness and inability to entertain themselves.

3.) What is the main benefit you get/want to get out of relationships?

Validation and a hole to sticc my dicc in

4.) Which traits do you personally want the mother/father of your would-be child to have?

Attractive so she can find weekly daddies for her son

Missbehaved stated: source post

2.) What aspect(s) of relationships do you particularly dislike the most.

I dislike the anxiety that comes with the responsibilities. I mean people are pretty delicate. I have to make sure I do not hurt them too much during sex. 

Lolwut? What sorts of delicate flowers are you used to? 
 

FUCK WHY DO I GOT TO EXPLAIN IT?? I MEAN IT'S PRETTY OBVIOUS IT'S ABOUT HAVING THE BESTEST FRIEND IN THE WORLD WHO YOU CAN BANG!

Bingo. 
 

4.) Which traits do you personally want the mother/father of your would-be child to have?

I want them to care about the child and me. I think everything else will fall into place...

Have you not thought about parenting styles or how arguments might look in front of the kid? 

Systematic stated: source post

I've had some pretty warped views of relationships in the past that still have me questioning how far off I am from the average perspective. I'll put up a series of questions to see if I can gain a reference point. Answer which ever ones you'd like, the whole thing doesn't need to be completed.

1.) On a scale of 1 to 5, 1 being the highest, what is the ideal relevance a relationship would have in your life?

2.) What aspect(s) of relationships do you particularly dislike the most

3.) What is the main benefit you get/want to get out of relationships?

4.) Which traits do you personally want the mother/father of your would-be child to have?

3.

The feelings part.

Idk

Caring, understanding, a good role model

"1.) On a scale of 1 to 5, 1 being the highest, what is the ideal relevance a relationship would have in your life?"

1. That would imply a very satisfying relationship.

"2.) What aspect(s) of relationships do you particularly dislike the most"

Petty arguments. Don't like the larger ones either, but those are usually crucial indexes of how things are going.

"3.) What is the main benefit you get/want to get out of relationships?"

The feeling of comfort, shared interests, and deep mutual understanding. A sort of magnetism that enriches life.

"4.) Which traits do you personally want the mother/father of your would-be child to have?"

Conscientiousness, commitment (to our family), faithfulness. Emotional and intellectual intelligence. Basically, a woman confident in her femininity who can be a good example of the feminine...combined with the ability to fully grasp the gravity of having a child, and the intellect to know how to do so in a way that our kid doesn't grow up to be someone like Chris Chan.

"1.) On a scale of 1 to 5, 1 being the highest, what is the ideal relevance a relationship would have in your life?"

1. All this self improvement and better myself at the core is just for the person I haven't met yet. 

"2.) What aspect(s) of relationships do you particularly dislike the most"

The warped perspective and the eerie, dreamlike feeling of actually being content with life when I feel shouldn't be. If I met the right person, all my personal ambitions and goals would just drop and be replaced by them. While that is the end goal, I can't have that happen until I reach at least a few milestones. I dont want my life highjacked....again.

"3.) What is the main benefit you get/want to get out of relationships?"

Passion and purpose. There's a certain tenacity and zeal added to almost everything I do that obliterates any sort of drive I have going currently.

"4.) Which traits do you personally want the mother/father of your would-be child to have?"

She needs a certain level of determination and self awareness that'll make her push as hard as I would for the would be child without me actually being there.