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You're such an attention whore, Gerard.

~ Frank

I am losing my crave for sex, I even find excuse when I am not in the mood or just lazy to do it and I invent that I am somewhere else working and etc just so I do not need to meet the girl.

Why ? 27 years old.

I'm at that point at 21, feels

Oh my. 

Well, I am going to try to guess because we both are having the same problem it seems.

Do you from time to time use drugs or drink a lot ? I think I might be transfering part of my pleasure to that acts and some others, so sex does not bring me the same satisfaction as before.

"Do you from time to time use drugs or drink a lot ?"

I used to, but back then I wanted someone to do them with and subsequently had a higher drive.

Mine stems from having some mild attachment issues and instances in the past that went sour. I think subconsciously I'm terrified of the opposite sex in any romantic way, while sex itself just can't match the satisfaction of having a long term partner in my head. I just have no interest in sex unless I think something long term can come out of it(and the type i want isn't exactly up for one night stands).

I still have sex rarely but it's because it's basically tossed on my lap, otherwise I wont bite

tl;dr nah I'm just lonely

That actually makes sense. I am looking for a long term relantionship as well. But at the same time I do not want because I do know, I don't want to get frustated if does not work.

Let's get this ball rolling

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Waltz Inaminor stated: source post

I am losing my crave for sex, I even find excuse when I am not in the mood or just lazy to do it and I invent that I am somewhere else working and etc just so I do not need to meet the girl.

Why ? 27 years old.

Have you been very sexually active previously?  Have you felt a "lull" like this before?