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how do i tell if a sociopath is in love with me?


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hello, forum

i wanna keep this short. i've been dating a sociopath for about 6 months on and off. he's put me through so much shit but i still care about him and it may sound like i'm a doormat but i think that means no matter what i'll always love him. so i guess it means he's the one for me. because  i know i would NOT take this shit from any other man.

 

throughout the relationship, he's cheated several times, gave me herpes and a few other CURABLE stds, stole money (but he gave it back), disappeared randomly several times throughout and came back like nothing happened among other things.

 

yet i still feel like im in love. even when i was in my moments where i was pissed i still felt good that i finally cared enough about someone to be so pissed. so im willing to take it cause i've never felt this way before. every time he comes back and we make up it makes our love that much stronger.

 

the only thing is i dont know if he feels the same about me. he said the longest relationship he had was a month and he never comes back to girls. but he's come back to me for 6 months now. so maybe thats a start? he's definitely on a roll with me. its either not love or a fucked up version of love. a fucked version still gets me the love of my life.

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how do i tell if a sociopath is in love with me?

http://www.lovepanky.com/love-couch/better-love/10-types-of-love-experience

Posts: 760
how do i tell if a sociopath is in love with me?

Maybe it does not matter if he loves you. If he gives you std, cheats, steals... It does not even matter if he loves you. It is a pathetic heart you do not want.

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how do i tell if a sociopath is in love with me?

i don't get it. how does this help

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how do i tell if a sociopath is in love with me?

i don't think that's necessarily the case because he does a lot of good things for me too. i just put the bad things because i wantedto say what he's like at his worst and that i accept even that...

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how do i tell if a sociopath is in love with me?

It describes different types of loves. It could be he has selfish love.

Selfish love is smart. And though it involves two people to create that relationship, selfish love also involves two people who are in love with one person.

Your partner loves you. You love you.

Selfish love is a narcissistic love where you don’t care about your partner or their happiness. You only care about yourself. If you ever find yourself getting into a relationship just for the heck of it without really falling in love with the other person, chances are, you’re a selfish lover.

Selfish lovers are clever, scheming foxes who only get into a relationship to see what they can get out of it.

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how do i tell if a sociopath is in love with me?

i dont think he's a selfish lover because he sacrificed for me too. but you could be right. there's always a chance

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how do i tell if a sociopath is in love with me?

Well tell me what he has sacrificed.

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how do i tell if a sociopath is in love with me?

No chance.

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how do i tell if a sociopath is in love with me?

pretty much his whole way of being. before, he had a lot of trust issues. he constantly accused every girl of being out to get him but he's changed his outlook on relationships completely and currently having a rocky time getting adjusted, but he's trying.

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