How is this not entertaining?
I don't get it... I'm saying there might be....
A misunderstanding that needs clearing.
A person may want to improve if someone sees a fault in them.
A person may want to apologize is they find they did wrong without noticing.
I mean a lot of things can be done without enough consideration. I think it comes with impulsively which is part of ADHD. I am considered impulsive by doctors with this diagnosis. It means I can say things without consideration. It doesn't mean I can't improve. I can take meds, I can be more mindful, I hold my tongue. I am not saying I try to say anything hurtful... I just say stuff that sound wrong.
I say stuff like "My mom is into the alcohol again". Then suddenly people thought my mother was an alcoholic. I just mean she had has alcohol in the past and now she is having some once again.
I say stuff like "Who wants my cherry". Then suddenly I get a weird look. I see people thought I was talking about my virginity. I just don't like cherries so I see if anyone wants a cherry.
I do not always realize how it sounds on impulse. I do also have a habit of assuming everyone is on the same level as me... I make a few connections and then I assume everyone else made the connection. I start talking as if they had made the connection. I have to explain myself afterwards and show what I mean when I speak.
I am not saying she did anything wrong or did not. I do not know. I do say she has the right to know the accusation. In a court of law the judge does not refrain from providing evidence. I am not saying this is a court of law. I am not saying there will be a trial or a jury or whatever considering it is an opinion. I am saying there is a reason that in a court of law the judge discloses the accusations and gives the person a chance to deny or plead guilty. It is because there is no true justice without it...
I think you are acting like the personality of someone is set in stone. I like to think people change a lot when they are willful. I think people change in experiences and through feedback. I think people change with age... I do think she deserves to know. I think not telling her means the person wants cricket to be set in her ways. It means not giving the opportunity to improve. I always want to improve.
All in all communication is interesting... It is the act of putting out symbols or vibrations... In each word we may have slightly different experiences of meanings. In each sentence there is a different different life of experiences to back it up.
I say stuff like "Who wants my cherry". Then suddenly I get a weird look. I see people thought I was talking about my virginity. I just don't like cherries so I see if anyone wants a cherry.
But when you do it online, how would you give an online person that cherry?
I am not saying she did anything wrong or did not. I do not know. I do say she has the right to know the accusation. In a court of law the judge does not refrain from providing evidence. I am not saying this is a court of law. I am not saying there will be a trial or a jury or whatever considering it is an opinion. I am saying there is a reason that in a court of law the judge discloses the accusations and gives the person a chance to deny or plead guilty. It is because there is no true justice without it...
Dude just drop it, cricket already has so I don't see why you're still going about it.
