I think there were good intentions, the way she went about it might have been wrong but...
Asta, why did you have to swallow your pride to say Happy Birthday? It makes it seem like perhaps you're both having a bit of a disagreement.
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I think there were good intentions, the way she went about it might have been wrong but...
No, this isn't an isolated incident but a consistent pattern of behaviour with miss. Tryp isn't the only forum member that she's gone for in an attempt to aggressively demonstrate support that she's been made aware was unwanted and unnecessary. Not just this incident, but her presence in general is suspect.
I honestly don't think she sees her behaviour very clearly. It was obvious in the beginning of the thread that she didn't understand how she was crossing a boundary. I think that at SC too much credit is placed on one's ability to understand what should seem to be quite obvious. So then assumptions are made that it is known but that the person is unwilling to admit wrong doing, or to apologize. That isn't always the case.
I'd like to know why she knows Tryp's birthday in the first place? Because if it's top secret shit that leaves you feeling exposed and vulnerable in a negative way, how 'bout don't share it to begin with? I see everyone's point but I also think you're all bored and looking for a new lynching to feed off. My opinion is she did what she did without malice and didn't see what harm could come of it. By all means though, turn it into a capital offense.
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I guess, i just think something might have spurred her on. I can't imagine someone just declaring these amorous feels out of nowhere
I mean, is it completely one sided?
How should I know if he expressed feelings for her? That's not my concern.
What I see, and what I'm discussing, is a pattern of intrusion on her part without regard for the other individuals involved. If her intended targets spoke out and said "hey, wait, I love this public attention I'm getting from miss" then I wouldn't have any ammo here. But what I'm seeing in miss is someone who really wants to start some drama. Why else persist?
"I'd like to know why she knows Tryp's birthday in the first place? Because if it's top secret shit that leaves you feeling exposed and vulnerable in a negative way, how 'bout don't share it to begin with?"
I doxed myself; my birthday is not exactly classified information. I don't feel exposed or vulnerable because someone posted my birthday. It's just that I don't care for someone bringing it up the day of it, because they feel it should be celebrated by the forum. It was more the principle of the action, alongside other factors which I don't care to mention.
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I just think there's two sides to every story when there's two people involved. Perspective flips are fun and I'm really interested in the "this will all make sense soon."
I don't know how to make this any clearer: I don't care about what's going on in private between her and Tryp.
I'm interested in the trainwreck that I've been actively observing over the last few weeks between miss and multiple people. She's like an unstoppable force of social awkwardness and inappropriate stalker-like behaviour with ulterior motives hidden beneath a blanket of naiveity.