Chapo stated: source post
I'm really curious what their sex life is like.
It's very interesting that's for sure lol
You made me dig into myself with that qiestion. Possibly feeling bored at times is what in fact makes me second guess our relationship. I've always had a partner that matched me in wit and charisma. Coincidentally enough I have widowed twice. The life change I made before I met him was to slow myself down and he compliments that. I should be happy. I think in alot of ways I have bettered him, I teach him alot, me being a jack of all trades and him being willing to accept my lead helps. Yet at times i almost consider him another child and i fin myself resentful . In some ways I'm sure I haven't bettered him, he doesn't take my moods correctly which leaves him nervous and on edge, in return he grasps for me harder when I need space. I've never physically lashed out at him, I also avoid trying to verbally rip him apart. Where as I am not much effected I know it effects him horribly. I guess me joining this site I was hoping to find people that understand my ways and are willing to truly think about what makes us tick and be honest about it...however it seems most are caught up in the games being played.
It is but I guess me being me it's tough....sensitivity isn't a strong point. And besides me...I play mom n dad to 3 kids. Freaking conflicted I guess. Just wanted to know if others put themselves or found themselves in relationships such as this. I'm a different person when we aren't together.
It is but I guess me being me it's tough....sensitivity isn't a strong point. And besides me...I play mom n dad to 3 kids. Freaking conflicted I guess. Just wanted to know if others put themselves or found themselves in relationships such as this. I'm a different person when we aren't together.
If you're playing mom and dad to three kids, how much harder will that be if you have free-reign to act on your impulses? Instead of being resentful, might be a good idea to consider it a blessing that you have someone who is understanding enough to overlook your flaws (because trust me, he still sees them) and stick by you regardless.
We're all different people in front of different people, some to a greater extent than others. Home life is home life. Work life is work life. Play life is play life. Of course you're going to be a different person alone with your partner than with other people. Partners get to see a different, maybe deeper, side of you that you shouldn't be displaying to others because it would just kinda be weird.