Every thing is simple when you really break it down. Occam's razor fan here. If I want something I simply take it. For example the other day I walked up and ask for a slice of cake from some people. No explanation, no complicated backstory, just "Hey can I have some cake?" They gave me a slice of cake and fork. Or if you like someone or are interested in them tell them and ask about them. Almost no one will deny you, most people love talking about themselves and are more than happy to tell you. Also most people think a smart person is good at really complicated things but in reality they don't overthink things and take very simple logical steps. A great example is a rubix cube, its actual very easy to solve and can be figured out in a hour or too. Its not complex at all rather its very simple. All you do is change a few pieces on one side while messing up another side call them side a and b. Then you undo what you just did but rotate the pieces you moved out of the way.