Xena - feel free to ignore Sugar's questions. You know what's going on in your life and it's none of Sugar's business. Keep in mind Sugar can dish all the insults but she can't take it - she's a crybaby who mutes at the slightest discomfort!
Tryptamine stated: source post
I remember it very well. Please show me where I am wrong.
"You are still not confronting that you seriously injured an innocent man"
Um... yes I did. You can find the quote. I'm pretty sure you were there when I said I felt bad for him. The second and the fourth and the sixth times.
Xena stated: source post
It wasn't a knife.
For the 48th time.
But I'm not digging up the posts. You still have an account on PF
You can find it if it matters that much to you.
Didn't find it on PF (in the topic Sugar was quoting anyway), but you did answer what it was here:
Xena stated: source post
Your question was : "Tell us about the guy you stabbed in the arm..."
I said "I didn't stab him in the arm."
I didn't. I threw a glass pot at him from across the room.
Throwing a glass pot does scream "fit of passion" as opposed to "crazed slasher", but that happening over a misunderstanding, with your post going on about how your vengeance schemes are remorseless, definitely raises some questions.
Xena stated: source post
So I stand corrected about the actual words I used.
However, it would seem that you're still mistaken about the interpretation.
Precisely what do you think it means for a parent to teach their kids?
You used the word "blame" in chat earlier.
Do you think that books and classrooms are horrid places full of blame and derision?
That children can only learn by suffering?
It may surprise you to learn that assimilating knowledge usually happens with little to no emotional investment, and is often fun for the person learning.
Where do you get 'blame' out of that statement?
my reason for implying you had blamed her was that your comment seemed to be attributing responsibility to your daughter over yourself. in my opinion, you are solely to blame, not only for acting on impulse based on information from a 2 year old, but the fact that you didn't take into account the amount of times you had asked her (i assume she initially said no) and her having changed the answer due to your repeating the question, as though you were looking for a different answer. many child experiments have demonstrated children often change their answers when a question is repeated as it give the impression their initial answer is incorrect.
so you're saying when she 'learned a lesson' it was a positive learning experience, like reading or being in class? When reminded of your preceding comment 'She only remembers the incident bc of the broken glass... cops, ambulance, etc.', would you still maintain that position?
on top of this, let me just copy the definition of 'learning one's lesson' for clarity:
learn one's lesson
Profit from experience, especially an unhappy one. For example, From now on she'd read the instructions first; she'd learned her lesson . Also see hard way
I don't mind, WW.
I was just telling the others how this whole silly trolling tack started as an offhand remark I made on PF, years ago, for the sake of commiserating with somebody who felt bad about fighting or leaving a boyfriend or smthg.
I'm fine with what happened. It was many many years ago. Like decades. Sug and the others are the ones who seem traumatized by it. Not me and certainly not my daughter.
Maybe this thread will help them get it off their chests once and for all so they can get past their mommy issues and get on with their lives.
hugs all the obsessed stalker freak socios
Turncoat stated: source post
Xena stated: source post
Tryptamine stated: source post
I remember it very well. Please show me where I am wrong.
"You are still not confronting that you seriously injured an innocent man"
Um... yes I did. You can find the quote. I'm pretty sure you were there when I said I felt bad for him. The second and the fourth and the sixth times.
Your response in that topic:
Xena stated: source post
If I ever see him again, I'll let him know that justice has been done.When somebody wrongs me and I do what needs to be done to level the playing field (theft, etc.) I never feel remorse either. I do usually try to work my revenge schemes in a manner that properly answers the harm done to me.Chronic self justification with poor self control seems like a dangerous combo. You don't seem too affected by your poor choices, instead seemingly reflecting that life karma's doing it for you.
Define chronic for me, plz.
And kindly restate your inference (below " Your response in that topic") in more explicit terms. You've taken 2 paragraphs that I intentionally posted way far apart and crammed them together as if you want our audience to read them as a premise and a conclusion.
My original post was not organized like that.
angee12880113 stated: source post
Why were you having strange men around your children often enough that you had to continuously ask your toddler aged daughter if men were touching her nono place?
Thiiiis made me laugh out loud. Thank you for that.
Xena stated: source post
angee12880113 stated: source post
Why were you having strange men around your children often enough that you had to continuously ask your toddler aged daughter if men were touching her nono place?
Ha. Way to load a question.
I have never continuously asked my daughter anything.
And I don't/didn't allow strange people in my home.
I dunno Xena, people you'd suspect to be capable of bad-touching your kids sound a little strange potentially, and from the sounds of it you've let said people into where your family was staying.
Xena stated: source post
And I said "learned a lesson."
If you answered more clearly and to the point, these constant nitpicks for clarity wouldn't need to be so common from you.
...but that's probably your intention, as that serves as a way to bait-hijack a topic.