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IRL Selves: Apathy and Lies... A Topic from Motor


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  • 12:05  Motor: When someone says something about their irl selves.
  • 12:06  Motor: Half the people here be like 'oh that's nice, w/e'
  • 12:07  Motor: And the other half be like 'yer full of shit, you lied loser feggit'
  • 12:07  Motor: This annoys me.
  • 12:08  Motor: Because that fact remains that outside a small minority that have been thoroughly doxxed, you don't know if they're telling the truth or not!
  • 12:08  Mee: Can you be more specific?
  • 12:09  Motor: So for example, say I go skiing.
  • 12:09  Motor: And I embed some go pro footage.
  • 12:09  Motor: On this here site
  • 12:10  Motor: Half the people will be like 'sure, w/e' since they just don't really care.
  • 12:11  Motor: The other half would automatically try to assume I'm lying, and that for whatever reason I just randomly chose to upload gopro footage to the site.
  • 12:12  Motor: But fact remains that unless you guys somehow know me irl, you have no way to be 100% sure (or even 50%) that I'm lying or telling the truth.
  • 12:13  Cricket: What about it though?
  • 12:13  Motor: Simply because we don't have enough information on eachother to make a full conjecture.
  • 12:14  JimSavage: anyone else utter stuff to themselves in their room?
  • 12:14  Motor: It annoys me that nevertheless, people assume one thing or another, as though they have to pick a side to show confidence.
  • 12:15  JimSavage: the ones that say its a lie
  • 12:15  JimSavage: are the ones that feel threatened
  • 12:15  JimSavage: by the idea that
  • 12:15  JimSavage: you might be getting outside the house
  • 12:15  JimSavage: therefore superior to them
  • confidently  y don't care regardless of the legitimacy of the act.
  • 12:16  Mee: And the ones whom do not believe you... what would be the alternative? They would not care too?
  • 12:16  Motor: No mee

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IRL Selves: Apathy and Lies... A Topic from Motor

Always glad to help

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IRL Selves: Apathy and Lies... A Topic from Motor

Solid work proving the point that was being made.

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IRL Selves: Apathy and Lies... A Topic from Motor

I care just enough to tell you I don't give much of a single shit

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IRL Selves: Apathy and Lies... A Topic from Motor

 

  • 12:16  Cricket: If one can't really know, then why care?
  • 12:16  Motor: Exactly cricket
  • 12:17  Mee: No mee?
  • 12:17  Cricket: I think some care to the extent that they find the profession or hobby interesting
  • 12:17  Motor: No Mee as in its like those who try to prove others lie on this forum car way too much.
  • 12:17  Motor: They go to great lengths.
  • 12:18  Motor: Which is what I find strange.
  • 12:18  Mee: They do until it is proven.
  • 12:18  Cricket: I'm actually going to agree with Him that those others who go through such lengths feel threatened
  • 12:18  Motor: But you cannot prove that people here are telling the truth, or lying!
  • 12:18  Cricket: *Jim
  • 12:18  Motor: Him lol
  • 12:18  Cricket: Lol

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IRL Selves: Apathy and Lies... A Topic from Motor
  • 12:19  Mee: You can prove with timestamps and stuff.
  • 12:19  Motor: No.
  • 12:19  Mee: Most of the selfies in the selfie thread, for instance.
  • 12:19  Mee: They seem genuine.
  • 12:19  Mee: Even without much proof.
  • 12:19  Motor: I could just take a video from YouTube with the right upload date.
  • 12:20  Cricket: Hence the apathy
  • 12:20  Mee: If sound is involved you could say "hi SC" or just pee on a snow, creating "SC"
  • 12:20  Mee: And tape it.
  • 12:20  Cricket: Lol
  • 12:20  Mee: Well, the final result, not the whole act...
  • 12:20  Mee: Or maybe whole, I don't know.
  • 12:21  Motor: Lol, didn't another pointless user write his name on a note pad and put it in a picture?
  • 12:21  Mee: he did.
  • 12:21  Cricket: He did and people still argued it
  • 12:22  Motor: And yet until we saw his face when he was in handcuffs, there were those who argued he was 'doing it for attention'
  • 12:22  Mee: Going to jail for attention?
  • 12:23  Mee: Well, if one is gay...
  • 12:23  Cricket: Ha
  • 12:24  Cricket: APU had problems way beyond attention seeking
  • 12:24  Motor: Can someone highlight the whole chat and paste it into a thread?
  • 12:24  Cricket: This chat?
  • 12:25  Motor: I want to have more of this discussion on a permanent platform.
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IRL Selves: Apathy and Lies... A Topic from Motor

As Jim stated, it may be stemming from envy or a feeling of inferiority. Take, for instance, pathological narcissism (NPD) where an individual might attempt to over-compensate for areas in which they feel inferior. When presented with evidence that another has something perceived as "better" than what one has, this can lead to narcissistic injury resulting in either 1) the attempt to actually improve in this area and so correct the deficit that the N feels exists or 2) attempt to show the other a fraud in order to relieve the feeling. It is much easier to shout for proof that another is fraudulent than to actually put in work to improve one's own condition.

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IRL Selves: Apathy and Lies... A Topic from Motor

Are you saying the accusations of lying on the part of the accuser could simply be due to the accuser being in the habit of such lies?

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IRL Selves: Apathy and Lies... A Topic from Motor

In most cases, I'd say it's not even about whether people care for the individual or not but what sort of ideology/values they have. I typically carry a half-glass full perspective, those who are a bit more skeptic maybe just reinforcing their own values by doubting what's putting before habitually.

In short; this sort of judgmental behavior in others I see more as a reflex than a conscious concern

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IRL Selves: Apathy and Lies... A Topic from Motor

Skepticism is certainly a thing. We are discussing those who go through obsessive lengths to undermine others claimed achievements or interests.

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