by DaddyThat one of the dozens of women you've slept with out there had a kid and you didn't know about it?
Yes, and the scariest part is that it's not that irrational after all XD
by Tryptamine
Oh wait...this is actually bragging disguised as a question. Never mind.
How is being irresponsible bragging? It's a pretty unpleasant thing to imagine, having a kid out there that hates his/her absent father.
"How is being irresponsible bragging? It's a pretty unpleasant thing to imagine, having a kid out there that hates his/her absent father."
I would never claim being irresponsible = bragging.
What I'm saying is that the original question is vapid and looks like someone bragging about their sexual prowess.
"I've had sex with tons of women and sometimes I worry I might have a kid out there. Any of you guys feel the same?"
"Yeah totally, I've had sex with lots of women too and I have the same fear. Weird to think I might be a dad."
Hell yeah, finally some real discussions.
If you weren't giving a shit about the possible consequences of your actions at the time, why are you fretting about it now? Did you turn mentally retarded when you seen dat ass?
by Tryptamine"How is being irresponsible bragging? It's a pretty unpleasant thing to imagine, having a kid out there that hates his/her absent father."
I would never claim being irresponsible = bragging.
What I'm saying is that the original question is vapid and looks like someone bragging about their sexual prowess.
"I've had sex with tons of women and sometimes I worry I might have a kid out there. Any of you guys feel the same?"
"Yeah totally, I've had sex with lots of women too and I have the same fear. Weird to think I might be a dad."
Hell yeah, finally some real discussions.
If you weren't giving a shit about the possible consequences of your actions at the time, why are you fretting about it now? Did you turn mentally retarded when you seen dat ass?
I've only had to explain this to people with ovaries, but alright.
Making mistakes with sex is the same as making any other type of mistakes. Being caught up in the moment happens, being drunk and not thinking straight happens, being immature and selfish is even normal at some point in life. Maybe you've been righteous mother Teresa all your life (it's easier when you have no temptations I assume, I for one have had many), but why do you think those who make mistakes aren't capable of becoming aware of them later on?
And please, you don't give a shit about this thread not being "real discussion", most of them aren't. Turns out that other men implying they've had more of a sex life than you bothers you for some reason. The way I saw it, the topic wasn't even about being around the block as much as it was about the possibility of fatherhood. You only have to fuck up once for that, no need to be Don Juan to have a few worries here and there.
"Making mistakes with sex is the same as making any other type of mistakes. Being caught up in the moment happens, being drunk and not thinking straight happens, being immature and selfish is even normal at some point in life. Maybe you've been righteous mother Teresa all your life (it's easier when you have no temptations I assume, I for one have had many), but why do you think those who make mistakes aren't capable of becoming aware of them later on?"
I'm aware of the mistakes I've made. But I don't pointlessly mull over them, I learn from them and move on. I can't time travel and undo what I've done, so who cares?
"And please, you don't give a shit about this thread not being "real discussion", most of them aren't."
The only reason I busted on this topic in particular as a "real discussion" is because you said:
"How is being irresponsible bragging? It's a pretty unpleasant thing to imagine, having a kid out there that hates his/her absent father."
"Turns out that other men implying they've had more of a sex life than you bothers you for some reason."
I'm pretty sure if you guys aren't compulsive liars, then the both of you have had more sex than I have. That doesn't bother me at all.
"The way I saw it, the topic wasn't even about being around the block as much as it was about the possibility of fatherhood. You only have to fuck up once for that, no need to be Don Juan to have a few worries here and there."
If you haven't taken a paternity test that proves you're a father, there's nothing to worry about.
If you're worried about "having a kid out there that hates his/her absent father," then I guess you should exercise more caution with your phallus. But since you didn't, and you can't know what you don't know, then what's the point?
