by RomuleSo to gain their favour(lol) early on is to establish a potentially profitable connection.
Some people don't like gifts, they don't like to receive anything, because they understand the dynamics of favors, obligations, and fundamentally, what freedom is.
So the next time someone doesn't accept your gift, and says, don't take it personally. Well, they are probably anti-social.
Now an NPD (your problematic ones), they love gifts. Even if they toss that shit in the garbage, it's a social signal of control, belonging, and fundamentally, control.
All theory... Right?
If you go someplace important, you had better show your respect, by bringing gifts.
The way I see it, the most profitable people are those that have the most connections.
Possibly. However, I must say the most profitable situations in my life, have had nothing to do with the millionaires I have worked for and met. Typically, people with connections can help you find connections, but the profitable people are the ones with skills and talent. Exploiting those resources is where corporations build multi billion dollar enterprise.
For example, go to a bank and tell them you have 100,000 dollars and you want to make some money.
Or, you could take 100,000 dollars and give that money to lets say, some construction crew to build a home from cheap parts, with cheap labor, whatever.
Where is the better return? The well connected banker, or the skilled labor?
Right? A bank is going to invest in the real estate crews, with your money anyways.
So, this is a sociopathy forum right? The difference between being consciously aware of your actions and why you react, versus running on auto-pilot.
I'll bet the megalomaniacs were the ones who coined the term head shrinker.
And... most npds never need to visit a psychologist, until they discover control begins to slip from their grasp.
Only guessing. It's a cliche in a movie. high powered executive or gangster or whoever, sees the world start to crumble around them, they lose control, and social order ceases to be the vision they previously conjured up.
In order to get something you must give something.
From someone else? sure... but generally no... you don't need to give anything, to get stuff from life, but to get stuff from people, if intimidation, or other fear mongering techniques don't work, yes, it's called incentives, and lobbyists, politicians and socialites, it is their business.