If we're talking about the protector complex than no, it's not at all about her. I do what I do because it's a psychological itch that needs to be scratched from time to time. If I didn't have a compulsion to act this way, I'm fairly sure I wouldn't. Maybe a bit because some of it fits within my morals.
I've been looking into why I have this itch in the first place and what I gathered was childhood experiences. I was always thrusted into the leadership role anyhow as a child, I guess it stuck. I have an urge to gain control and it comes from watching over my mother and siblings until my father could resume his role. However, I don't assume control to act on malevolence. It's always to better the person or at least help them past their current situations.