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You deducing that I excluded men from my theory without my explicit or implicit statement of such (I've even admitted to having mommy issues many times myself) suggests that this is more of an emotional defensive reaction on your part in the form of "WOMEN ARE NOT INFERIOR YOU SEXIST PIG CHECK YOUR PRIVILEDGE", and also a huge logical fallacy / failure to assess reality on your part, I've to say I'm disappointed. Thanks to Freud I've been able to assess why I was attracted to distant, insecure, flirtatious, easy, and narcissistic women.

And I understand that many theories of Freud were discounted, but they have also played the part of skeleton to build more verifiable and solid theories by the later theorists in this field that I've had the pleasure of studying their works.

To be fair, I've seen more overt displays of love and empathy from men more often than women. That's not to say that women feel less, but that displays of it vary in what's seen as acceptable from one culture to the next. If you've seen people of pakistani origin, the men there are allowed to be warm and emotional to some extent more than what seems to be allowed in the west.

by Frauschwitz

That's a troll post from a troll account, correct?

 

 Trolls are psychopaths, sociopaths, and sadists:

http://time.com/8265/internet-trolls-are-actually-sadists-study-finds/

I am not a sociopath, sadist, nor psychopath. That means I cannot be a troll.

by Sacha

Why is your Username "LoveFraudVictim"? Please clarify, are you a victim of love or a victim of the website lovefraud?

To begin with and to answer your question, if you consider yourself a victim then you see men as predators by default. Even though biology may predispose men to be less empathetic than women, there are predatory women as well, and men do suffer emotionally

 I was badly hurt. Then, a website took advantage of my hurt feelings. I no longer go there. Instead, I have since become a feminist. You should be one too. 

And what's the game plan?

by AlmightyJim

I was attracted to distant, insecure, flirtatious, easy, and narcissistic women.

 As in separate types? Because I don't see how distant and easy and flirtatous work together. Unless they are distant towards you and easy and flirtatious with all the rest, which wouldn't surprise me in your case Jim haha

by AlmightyJim

Thanks to Freud I've been able to assess why I was attracted to distant, insecure, flirtatious, easy, and narcissistic women.

 

You didn't need to study Freud to figure out why you're dissatisfied with your love life. You could've come here, where someone would've gently (or not) reminded you that you, yourself, are insecure and narcissistic to the point of delusional hysteria, which is a concept that I have coined 'specially for you.

Also, Pray was merely pointing out that you'd want to tread carefully when reading Freud due to the criticisms that psychoanalysis has faced over the last half century or so. It was a good point. But then you came back shrieking about how how Pray herself must be deluded and insecure (let's face it: that's what you really mean when you squawk that a woman is "defensive and emotional," isn't it? You've no other way to frame your (mis)understanding of those of the female persuasion). And that is precisely what people DO when they're deluded and insecure.

Merry Christmas, Jimbo. I trust you'll be alone again (unless you have a mother you can cuddle up to on Christmas morning)? Is Mummy distant and flirtatious, Jimmy? Does Mummy frame your view of womanhood? You've already admitted that you have these "Mommy Issues" (which is probably why no half-way decent woman will touch you). Are you afraid that Mummy's going to be canoodling up to some other guy this Christmas, rather than you, while you sit in your bedroom, forty years of age, sculling a bottle of egg nog and crying again?

I'm not going to wait for you to come back and start screeching non-coherently, Jimbo. Your response to the question was well-thought out. I disagree with it but you put in some time and effort for once. Quit while you're ahead (well, while you're not trailing miserably behind for once, at least).

Why is your Username "LoveFraudVictim"? Please clarify, are you a victim of love or a victim of the website lovefraud?

To begin with and to answer your question, if you consider yourself a victim then you see men as predators by default. Even though biology may predispose men to be less empathetic than women, there are predatory women as well, and men do suffer emotionally

by TeddyBear

To be fair, I've seen more overt displays of love and empathy from men more often than women. That's not to say that women feel less, but that displays of it vary in what's seen as acceptable from one culture to the next. If you've seen people of pakistani origin, the men there are allowed to be warm and emotional to some extent more than what seems to be allowed in the west.

 Yeah, but too much and you'll still be seen as gay. It's a pretty sexist culture overall. 

Talk to the Arse, you remind me of me. You have way too much fun with trolls.

by LoveFraudVictim

Why does male sexuality have to be predatory? Why don't they learn to love as kids like us ladies? We're always so loving and kind, and yet, the second half of our species lacks not just that capacity, but the capacity for empathy! 

 I learned to fake charisma from my mother. She just goes around demanding that people give her shit. So your theory that only men are incapable of love doesn't work, now, does it? And as you can see from my avatar I'm feminine.