Why does male sexuality have to be predatory? Why don't they learn to love as kids like us ladies? We're always so loving and kind, and yet, the second half of our species lacks not just that capacity, but the capacity for empathy!
Thanks O.G, been quite passionate and curious about psychology and related fields lately. Though most of the theories were confirmations of some things that I already deduced about the human mind (specifically object identification and defense mechanisms), maybe I could make a world domination manual for autistic villains who want to control minds using all this info. And I'm so sorry to hear about your childhood, maybe I could dress in a drag and that suit you wanted me o wear in pray's earlier gif thread to give the love and affection you lacked, to cheer you up a bit ;)
Men tend to date women that in some way shape or form remind them of mommy. So your arguement that solely women do it is invalid check the Oedipus theory.
Anyhow society teaches men that to be connected to their emotions is not "manly" or "macho" like. Emotions are for women, granted that doesn't mean all men are that way and that also doesnt mean all women are emotional. Really it all depends on the environment you were brought up in.
Jim, that's pretty smart stuff. I'm impressed.
OP, it's sort of true though. Expressing love is probably not an average happening in male households. Right. The man isn't supposed to cry whole ordeal, or the shake it off thing, which is fine, but probably not the real reason, in some instances. Me. I just never felt love, period. The pain of separation from someone I felt some joy and happiness being around, yeah, but feeling love, nah. It's something that I've grown to feel more deeply later on and only after some painful separations. That could be me remembering more of the painful memories and lacking the ability to remember feeling the joyful ones.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Confirmation_bias
1) Woman develops negative feelings towards distant inattentive father during childhood, considers him bad, absent, unloving, uncaring
2) Woman dates men similar to father (remember, the subconscious detects such men as "real men", similar to the father object, many traits similar to the imago of the parent of the opposite sex). She then projects onto these men her opinions and emotions that were originally towards father
3) Woman selectively dates these men, they are just like the original father unresponsive, cold, unloving, even abusive, thus giving woman confirmation about how men are, she feels her opinions validated and feeling justified
4) Repeat ad nauseam
You should go see a psychiatrist for your daddy issues.
I decided, hey how bad could a few potato chips be? I almost never get headaches.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Acrylamide
Is that it? Maybe we are all simply poisoned idiots incapable of anything except striking fear into people?
Hey, there is no citation, but the near splitting headache I have at the moment is proof enough for me.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Acrylamide
Some evidence suggests exposure to large doses can cause damage to the male reproductive glands.
by PrayforoursinnersOedipus theory.
Yeah, no doubt this came from a time when small nomadic gathers, were much closer family units. You know, before the romans decided that selling slaves to home owners is more profitable when you outlaw incest.
I've read that child handicaps, are just as, or close to similar with an aging population, as they are with close relatives.
by AlmightyJimmaybe I could dress in a drag and that suit you wanted me o wear in pray's earlier gif thread to give the love and affection you lacked, to cheer you up a bit ;)
No thanks. I'm not a fashion photographer, and to see your hairy ass in a diaper is not high on my priority list.
But if you mean getting dressed to the nines, in mad hatter gear, and selling cheap drugs under a homemade disco ball fixed under a bridge. Yeah. I am up for that.