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by James Adams

even a broken clock is right at least twice a day.

by Turncoat

Make sure to look past his use of language, that strangely seems to trick some people into looking past the flaws or assuming what he said must mean more than it does. It's not really "deep", it's just made to appear that way.
1) He assumes she only likes you because of the imaginary image she's painted of who you are. There's a variety of reasons why she might be sticking around, and how "imaginary" they are we don't know from your words.
2) He elaborates by assuming the crying was because of a clash of what she once thought and what she's stuck facing. While likely the case, it could be because of more than one set of thoughts crossing her mind.
3) He calls what she's doing "settling", which without knowing her is sort of him dissing you. It paints a picture that makes you seem less awesome (or carrying potentially less misunderstandings about yourself) than you might be.
4) He then goes on to call her strong without any proof beyond his own impression.

 i know he had flaws in his case but coincidentally he is right in several cases, even if it is by accident. the 2,3 and 4th are all rather close (defiantly the 4th)

even a broken clock is right at least twice a day.

by TheSocio

 Why did you tell her? How old are you and how long have you two been together? Your love isn't "special", she most likely doesn't see a good enough reason to break it off yet, including your proclamations. What have you done to disgust her enough to warrant her breaking up with you

 

yes, by a physiologist professor 

 Tell me more about that. How did he diagnose you? Did you spend a lot of time conversing and meeting with him frequently? What is your relationship with this person

 

   Why were you ready for her to leave you? Do you mean that in the sense of you were ready for it to end, or that you were expecting her to leave you soon?

 

that's why i told her, curiosity.

 

Lol, i'm calling bullshit. How about giving us a real reason rather than this petty cop out? "I was curious"

 

So you haven't already found it then? What are you expecting to change?

Do you think you're going to grow into loving her or something simply because she made the decision to stay with you?

 

You sound lost and completely clueless on what you're doing and what you want.

 Im answering only because i am not scared of the world knowing who i am.(Not that i want to reveal all my secrets just yet)

i told her because i have a need to understand. to understand everything and the question that was constantly on my mind was, how would someone react to the truth, i searched for the perfect person to tell and for a year and a half we have been going out. i have been patent and when i knew for certain what kind of person she truly was, i told her. 

i expected her to resent me for using her and never tell others that she had been tricked(her ego wouldn't allow it.) but i never expected to find someone that could love(For im sure that is what it is now) after they had been shamed like that. 

fer your other personal questions, i chose a professor just as carefully and discussed it all with him after his class for a week or two, he diagnosed me in confidentiality. i am somewhere between 19-23

did i fill your curiosity adequately?

                   "I was curious"

                                        -TheSocio

well, I explained who I was broadly, using references she would understand then made it seam as if I wasn't such a bad guy. she was angry because I had said I loved her on multiple occasions when it wasn't true. I hope I can make artificial love by combining physical love and commitment, after all, she is special in a way I cant truly explain and definitely worth any freedom I might lose.

And to answer your original question- yes, it is unconditional love, to love someone who makes you feel disgust. Unless she is a dimwitted, fat, masochist.

by TheSocio

by James Adams

How have you tricked/used/shamed her? How did the conversation go when you talked with her? For example, did you just blurt out "i'm a sociopath" or did you go into detail describing why, how, and what you've done to expect her resentment?

I didn't think my questions were that personal, and as you said you aren't afraid to talk about all of this anyway. You have no need to feel as if it's getting to personal since you are the OP and clearly wanted to discuss all the aspects of it. To be fair sometimes I don't know when I'm crossing a line or don't care if I am.

 

 Not quite but we're getting there. Like this: "Do you think you're going to grow into loving her or something simply because she made the decision to stay with you?" and the questions proposed above.

by James Adams

i expected her to resent me for using her and never tell others that she had been tricked(her ego wouldn't allow it.) but i never expected to find someone that could love(For im sure that is what it is now) after they had been shamed like that. 

How have you tricked/used/shamed her? How did the conversation go when you talked with her? For example, did you just blurt out "i'm a sociopath" or did you go into detail describing why, how, and what you've done to expect her resentment?

fer your other personal questions, i chose a professor just as carefully and discussed it all with him after his class for a week or two, he diagnosed me in confidentiality.

I didn't think my questions were that personal, and as you said you aren't afraid to talk about all of this anyway. You have no need to feel as if it's getting to personal since you are the OP and clearly wanted to discuss all the aspects of it. To be fair sometimes I don't know when I'm crossing a line or don't care if I am.

did i fill your curiosity adequately?

 Not quite but we're getting there. Like this: "Do you think you're going to grow into loving her or something simply because she made the decision to stay with you?" and the questions proposed above.