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human nature or unconditional love?


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I revealed who i was to my girlfriend last night and her response surprised me. at first she denied it, then she was disgusted that i had been 'using' her(That wants the surprising part) but then she started to cry and confessed that she wanted to stay with me. it wasn't for the physical love-making, but something else. 

my question, is this response human nature, or have i found a special love where others would be disgusted?

is this unconditional love, to find someone who loves you despite of their natural disgust? 

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Personally, I'd say she's just too attached to leave and that if her emotions permitted, she would takeoff. If it was unconditional, I don't think she would've broke down. 

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Bruce, I think anyone might feel used if you kept your alter ego a secret. Make no mistake, she's probably in it for your mansion and not your bat cave.

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I don't know black batman, it sounds complicated.

Is it like any of the other relationships you've had or was this the first?

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by Systematic

If it was unconditional, I don't think she would've broke down. 

 That's another freaky thing, she was crying for me, she was sad that i couldn't feel the things she could. 

-feeling a little mind boggled here.

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I'd guess that she does love you or she crazy. 

Most would leave: people do not like to be/feel used. So it is not a natural reaction for her to stay. I'd guess she has deeper feelings than like for you. 

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by James Adams

first, i usually stay away from those emotional situations. 

and im actually wight, i was tempted to let you guys think that though.

its more for my car than my mansion (=

 The batmobile just isn't worth that much.

You're in...

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by Spatial Mind

Even though you're a parasite of little value, you still offer her something, and whatever it is, it's in her imagination.

 

man, your name really fits you. i will be re-reading your post for its deep wisdom.

thanks.

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first, i usually stay away from those emotional situations. 

and im actually wight, i was tempted to let you guys think that though.

its more for my car than my mansion (=

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Just enjoy yourself, and let yourself go.

The crash, if it happens will be brutal, but if she is in love with you, it will be more than worth it.

Also... do you know how to tell if someone is in love with you? I don't know if I should tell you, because if they don't show the signs, it doesn't really mean they are not in love with you. Plus if they do show the signs, there is no guarantee they will stay in love.

Check to see if their pupils dilate. If they get larger when looking at you, that is a "love glow".

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