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I found my life purpose


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As some of you might have heard before, I've been on an introspection quest for a year and so to find out what the fuck do I want from my life, which led to an existential crisis 2 months ago that left me acknowledging how empty and shallow my life and values were, which was happily ended by a realization that what I was seeking was experience,novelty,thrill,stimulation,exploration instead of achievement, glory, dominance, status and wealth like I was thinking I am seeking. I've realized I find no value in possessions and I would happily trade them for moments and experiences that seem to be tend times more rewarding for me at least emotionally (i.e instead of possessing a beautiful female I'd flirt and share moments of sexual vibes, instead of saving money I'd earn lots through big efforts and blow it on fun things to give me more experience, instead of holding a high position in a company I'd work up the hierarchy then quit with a fat stack)

I want to hear your opinions on why one would prefer short-term sensations to long-term possesions.

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Lack of self-discipline most likely resulting from poor parenting

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If you set yourself up to enjoy long term stability, will you crave short term sensations?

That is a better question for YOU

Edit: because you didn't begin to answer the original question

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I think it depends on priorities and your ability to balance your life. IF you have long term stability, you can THEN just crave short term stimulation.

For example, IF you have a house and rent and bills and needs taken care of for the month, THEN you can blow some money on booze, or gambling or entertainment or a trip or whatever you are craving.

IF you are in a trusting and loving and secure relationship, THEN you can flirt with a waitress and not make your partner jealous. 

IF you are otherwise healthy, THEN you can eat a lot of birthday cake on your birthday.

IF I am feeing emotional stable and capable, THEN I can joke around on here and be kicked around like a football.

I think one is long-term, one is short-term? Or one comes first?

 

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My long term possessions tend to allow me to indulge in life.

Although it has been a bit risky to do so, I would not trade them for the short term. 

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Impressive realization...or not, I am not sure what to make of it.

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That is true, Wilful. ^  

Jim,

You want EVERYTHING but you want to give NOTHING. And life does not work that way for me. It may work that way for some, but not me. So, if you want to go around acting like a hormonal teen, than go for it. 

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You Almighty, are a man with a PD. That is why you call yourself Almighty. YOU prefer it because you don't have feelings that are developed like people without a PD. I am sorry to be so blunt and mean about it. 

You can fuck, marry, trick, or do whatever you want. However, you will never get anything more than short term sex from me. Why? Because that is all you are wiling to risk.

If you are single and use a condom, than fine. I would be more than happy to have sex with you.

And again. I love you, I have always love you and continue to love you. I will not be your side dish or your extramarital affair. I love us both too much for that.

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Hold on, let me re-read.

If I understand correctly, than speaking for myself, I feel I am stable enough so I can indulge in short term thrills. I am steady. I

am a control freak who has no control. I can never have any more stability in my future than what I have now. I have incurable conditions/diseases.

I would like a long term partner. I tend to be attracted to unstable men who do not love me. For this reason, I want both stability and thrills. I have both and neither.

I go on and off a dating website. I go on for a few days and then realize that 90% of the men either just want instant sex or money or a mommy. Then I get sad, and leave.

 

 

 

 

 

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If you are single and use a condom, than fine. I would be more than happy to have sex with you.

I'll have your legs spread whether I am single or married babe, we could even cuckold my stable chicks

However, you will never get anything more than short term sex from me. Why? Because that is all you are wiling to risk.

That's perfect, it's not like I have any other uses for you anyways

I will not be your side dish or your extramarital affair.

Lol @ how you talk like you have a choice

mwah on that milf pussy

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