Is it reasonable to make the assumption that all sociopaths crave money, power, and glory, or is that narcissists only?
I can see that. I think people use the disorder name as a way of explaining it to people. For example, I have almost every symptom of bipolar. When I say that, you can look it up and see what i mean. I use it as a way to sort of apologise about my behavior.
Of course not every thing I do is because of bipolar. But I do have every trait of that illness.
I'm more prone to seeing who a person is and seeing if they're similar to a disorder as opposed to seeing a disorder and assuming that they must be a manifestation of it.
Instead of figuring what "they" want as a group, it's about seeing who they are as individuals to me and then comparing that to the templates to see how similar they are to it. People rarely fit into boxes unless you force them in there, but people also have more in common than not.
When people have disorders, they aren't necessarily the disorders themselves, they're their own brand of it at best.