by Phoelyss
You reconstruct what you've read, but what you read is the same as what the psychologists read. Doesn't mean hardly any of it is true, though.
It's not just what I've read, it's what I've experienced, studied myself, and seen first hand.
But, again understanding is a matter of degrees. If a human mind's complexity is represented as the 360 degrees of a circle, does being able to cognitively reconstruct that entire angle constitute "understanding" a person? Do I understand a person if I get "180 degrees" of them, and I know half of everything they think, and half of why everything they do? If I am at "259 degrees" of understanding a person, do I really get them if I am one degree off?
Of course it would be impossible to comprehend all "360 degrees" of a persons's mind unless you've personally experienced their whole life. But I would never claim anyone needs to to comprehend anyone eles's mind entirely to understand them. That would not only be absurd; it would be impossible.
I don't claim that it is possible to entirely understand another person's frame of mind. I simply hold the hypothesis that it is possible to frame well other states of mind.