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That is my point. If they are calling me and wanting me to call them back, it doesn't show up as a number on my phone. I am curious because at times i have thought they wanted to speak to me, yet the only one who calls on my home phone are telemarketers, a select few people and political candidates.

I get a fair amount of wrong numbers, also. 

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by Stayonhere

Bella,

I am ASKING if 2 friends now each other, what would be the reason behind one person ignoring another. I am EXPLAINING that I receive "out of are calls" on my phone. I am EXPLAINING that the only people who call are people I don't know.

 

Tryp, thanks.

 

 

stayon

i have an advice for u take it or leave it

when some body ignores u dont CARE about the reason just forget about it find some thing else to occupy ur mind with

if they call u 1 day u can now decide whether u ignore them or want to hang out for some reason

and find ur self a better hobby than checking ur face book whether some body called every 5 minutes or so

 

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I was just making a comment about social media in general. I think it is interesting how someone may like your comments and tags and posts yet when you tell people you are going off FB on occasion, these "friends" don't call.

The reason I go off FB, etc. is because it is impersonal and addictive. That is the same reason I go "off"of this website sometimes.

That and the fact that i get called a boring loser who is obsessed with people who don't care about me.

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As I said, I am sure if anyone cared in any way, they would contact me. I like to go on and off Facebook for a while and see if anyone calls me. They never do. It is a fun little exercise. Also, I get out of control with my moods.

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I tend not to use those fone things too much. I don't have anyone I need to get ahold of on a regular basis. Anyone who wants to get ahold of me can just go ahead and email me, it is much simpler. Or, they could even come talk to me in person! That is, after all, how we evolved to communicate.

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I never met the sarcastic grape. 

And no, not Gia. It was just a question about human nature. And how different PDs or people would interpret it. I am sure if he cared in any way, he would say something. 

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by Stayonhere

I like to go on and off Facebook for a while and see if anyone calls me. They never do. It is a fun little exercise.

 How is it a fun exercise when no-one can be bothered to call you?

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Thank you for your kind and generous compliment, Spit. :)

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I used to have the same problem when I had a FB account (always feeling anxious, stressed and extremely paranoid because of it). Finally, I decided to delete my account and, miraculously, the discomfort disappeared. 

I think FB is a waste of time. If someone really wants to know how you're feeling, well, they should call or, if it's possible, visit you. FB messages are extremely impersonal and cold. 

Most people don't add you not because they want to be your friends. The vast majority are just narcissistic individuals who like to post meaningless pictures and show a fake image of who they really are...something like: "look!!! my life's so perfect". 

 

You should deactivate it for a while and see how it works. I'm not saying it'll solve all your problems, but it'll reduce your stress and anxiety. 

xo

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