I beleve that is the diffrence
I know he greatly disliked me. I was a virgin in high school and people thought I was a slut because I had breasts. He did not like my friend hanging around with me. He thought I was corrupting her.
Snobby jocks didn't like me in high school because I didn't fall for their crap. The bad boys always liked me cause they thought i would put out.
I have always got along with the "different" people. I feel different.