are you implying something?
I used to rent motel rooms and trash them, but not for coping. Breaking shit is alright though, I didn't mean to manage my urges but that's what happened. I didn't read the thread. Why is it something you want to curb?
Also, nothing will really satisfy those urges. If anything you need the right kind of occupation where that kind of thing is rewarded, if that is actually you, then you're attractive enough to be able to move around in those kinds of jobs. It's easiest and least boring to do that; setting up a situation where you can do this kind of thing with impunity isn't very rewarding.