Her likes are taylor swift, mean girls and dear john.
Fuck, i almost regret looking at that.
My guess is that be careful who choose not to show any remorse to.
It's really easy to run into people who genuinely show no remorse.
There is always someone out there that could seriously hurt you.
You know, "respect", well that's not a slang term that comes easily many. It's extremely repressive. Then you've got the people who will have no idea how to end their pains without doing what they can to erase their memories of you.
Honestly, and I don't enjoy fear mongering. When I read your post, the first thing that popped into my mind with a 28 year old woman who died in a garage, and the news reporter on TV, held up an iphone to a lady police officers face, and the police officer responded, "Oh Yeah, that's a homicide alright."
How do I cope? I don't know. I try an empathize with other people? I try not to feel sorry for other people, I try not to overstep any boundaries that could be perceived as insults. I don't know how I cope, but I'd probably be lying if I said I have never felt remorse, however it hasn't really plagued me or anything as I've had enough run ins with total psychopaths, and I suspect many people have had their fair shares of hurt in this particular world.
You know, it boils down to, does one choose to exist, or does one choose not to exist because offending anyone will lead to a total recourse of action on behalf of anyone.
So... abstract yourself from yourself, and try to understand what people truly want.