Put him up for adoption. End of problems. You got a bad seed. Sorry.
Really? He is on SSI for his issues has been for a year. I was trying to educate myself by getting on here and asking advice. Do I need to fax one of you all my paperwork from Social Security and His doctor. Geezus people just forget it. I'm seriously looking for answers and people think this is a joke. I had no idea that doctors avoid diagnosis at an early age. Did anyone think to tell me to maybe have his doctor checked out. This is obviously the wrong place and I apologize for wasting your time and insulting you all with my lack of understanding and knowledge.
I am such am asshole... need to work on that.
i like how you set yourself on a pedestal:
"I think a weaker person..."
What is it you really need? 5 kids? A trouble maker? Totally unrelated question... Daddy taking care of his bride?
Look, sorry... Kay? I really am a nice guy. You just caught me on a bad Saturday. You should get those doctors checked and do some investigation into the sexual abuse thing. You're at wits end. You need as much support from those closest to you right now. That is the motive in asking if you are being taken care of...
Perhaps we have found evidence of a broken child that will prove once and for all nature > nurture!
Personally, I don't believe it. I think we start with a pretty clean slate. All this behaviour was likely learned.
But if that's not the case, well then, there you go, the face of evil.
You should send him to one of those jails for children.
I know you think all these posters are unhelpful, but they are giving their honest oppinion, and to be honest, can you blame them? You offer a very unlikely story that goes against a lot of rules considers to be true about human nature and raising a child. Also, this forum is called sociopath world. What that means is a lot of these members have quite a bit of research about what a sociopath is, and it's definition, so to useing the word so causually to identify your son might not seem ignorant in normal society, but this is sociopath world. Welcome! hehe
Only reason I put myself on a pedestal is someone implied I might not be a good parent. I understand about having a bad days. I've been up since 10:30 am Thursday. I deal with most of the doctors and such because one I have more patience and two my job is more flexible so I can work overnights so he is never home alone. We've tried to check on the sexual abuse. It's all speculation. He's mother isn't going to tell us the truth. We can't even get her to call him on his birthday anymore. I just know I'm losing him. I don't want to lose him. As far as help goes it's hard. He's pushed away all the family members. Everyone is scared of him. I only have breaks when his dad get's home from work. Of course our relationship is strained. When he pushed my mom was when he lost the last person that was trying with me to help him in the family. This whole situation is scary all I have is doctors, social workers and the such talking at me. Hence me coming here. However as I just posted had I read the other forum topics I would have refrained from posting here at all. I obviously jumped the gun.
Assuming what you're saying is true...
If he's trying to kill people, and you don't know what's wrong or how to fix it, you should dope that kid up until all he can do is drool on himself. Once accomplished, find a psychiatrist that specilizes in behavorial problems in kids. Something is causing him to act out. I would guess sexual abuse.
If the above doesn't work tell him that you're going to send him to live with Jhawk. That should put the fear of God in to him and straighten him right out.
Have you even read any of the other threads on this forum? You will find no help or sympathy here. Why on earth did you think that you could find a support group here? You seem as stupid and as poorly informed about the site you're on as your bullshit story sounds. That said if it is all true try incentivising the kid. There is some evidence to suggest that sociopaths respond better to positive reinforcement then to negative reinforcement or punishment.