"Makes complete sense. It's not rape if she kicks him off her."
Fine, lets say the person was strong enough to throw her onto her back and keep her down, since my former comparison was a poor one.
"then dressed up with you like pain."
Never heard of algolagnia? I'd had experience with it before she ever happened, and she was aware of it.
"Then you complain and claim PTSD?"
It matched the symptoms at least, and those who assessed me at college seemed to agree (I suppose that could be seen as me feeding them answers though, so that only has so much weight). I suppose it could have been something else, but it seemed to fit by both how I and they saw it.