You pretty much reiterated my point.
I don't regard people (male or female) in any sexual way (other than my romantic interest, that is) - but on an æsthetic way. I objectify people like that. They're part of the landscape. That includes physical shape, nature ("personality") and intellect - those are usually closely intertwined.
"For what is inside of you is what is outside of you,
and the one who fashions you on the outside
is the one who shaped the inside of you.
And what you see outside of you, you see inside of you;
it is visible and it is your garment." (Nag Hammadi)