Astamiss stated: source post
I did not want to humiliate him. I apologize if I did. I don't think I am humiliating him because I assume most people already knew about the thread considering I am sort of new. It would not be any new knowledge.
I highly doubt he felt humiliated by that.
Astamiss stated: source post
I actually don't care about him calling me cringy for tryp related material. I can see that it might be annoying to him. I am not worried anyways because I have stopped making tryp related material.
I did not want to humiliate him. I apologize if I did. I don't think I am humiliating him because I assume most people already knew about the thread considering I am sort of new. It would not be any new knowledge.
I did feel bad for thinking it was fake at first. I wanted to validate him by showing I believe him. I believe him and I even feel for him. It is not good for him to be considered to be a deceitful. I don't want people to think he is joking as I did or seeking pity as some have assumed. I think it would be worse if I continue in disbelief. I don't know him that well and I am taking his word on this one. I am not only taking his word I see it as true. I see it as true then I feel for him.
I should have been more discrete. It would be more productive to my goal.
You should stop, think about what your goal actually is and take in to account that if you have a goal that involves another person who does not have the need to comply with your wishes and has goals of their own that may not be in line with yours. You've also stated that you don't know him very well and yet desire to validate him. Many people don't feel the need for validation from those they don't know well.
Just chill.
Cricket stated: source post
My sperg-outs were done because I knew DN appreciated them and he was/is an active participant. Co-ordinated sperging is romantic.
i'm laughing because i agreed with your comment..what sperg outs? your threads? :D
Dildo Faggins stated: source post
I actually don't care about him calling me cringy for tryp related material. I can see that it might be annoying to him. I am not worried anyways because I have stopped making tryp related material.
Did you stop because of what he had said?
Nah.
I did not want to humiliate him. I apologize if I did. I don't think I am humiliating him because I assume most people already knew about the thread considering I am sort of new. It would not be any new knowledge.
You understand how it looks like though right? It looks like an excuse- "well it was all ready there!" He called you cringey and then this pops up. That's how it seems. I just don't understand why you'd bump it up, I don't even understand your reaction it just seems rather dramatic.
I don't care to be called cringy on a conditional basis that I have stopped acting out. I am being dramatic because I it is a big deal to become my enemy. I don't tend to make enemies. I have called people enemies though that is because they consider me an enemy. I don't consider them an enemy because I don't hate them as a person. I don't like them. I rarely have HATRED. It is a big deal for me to have hatred because it is such a rare emotion.
I did feel bad for thinking it was fake at first. I wanted to validate him by showing I believe him. I believe him and I even feel for him. It is not good for him to be considered to be a deceitful. I don't want people to think he is joking as I did or seeking pity as some have assumed. I think it would be worse if I continue in disbelief. I don't know him that well and I am taking his word on this one. I am not only taking his word I see it as true. I see it as true then I feel for him.
This sounds like bs but maybe there's something that just isn't translating well. No one was really thinking about this but you, in fact it looked like you were digging. Why would you try to convince others of something hes already explained more than a couple of times? What would make you so much more believable than him? You've made about you again. Again you could have just asked him directly.
I made the mistake. I have seen some say men can't get raped even in the chat. I know men can be raped. I notice some thinking about how they do not believe his experience.
I should have been more discrete. It would be more productive to my goal.
What was/is your goal?
My overall goal is to get to know turncoat. I won't be able to get to know him in a personal way through threads as well as pm. It is safer environment in private message.
Cricket stated: source post
Astamiss stated: source post
I actually don't care about him calling me cringy for tryp related material. I can see that it might be annoying to him. I am not worried anyways because I have stopped making tryp related material.
I did not want to humiliate him. I apologize if I did. I don't think I am humiliating him because I assume most people already knew about the thread considering I am sort of new. It would not be any new knowledge.
I did feel bad for thinking it was fake at first. I wanted to validate him by showing I believe him. I believe him and I even feel for him. It is not good for him to be considered to be a deceitful. I don't want people to think he is joking as I did or seeking pity as some have assumed. I think it would be worse if I continue in disbelief. I don't know him that well and I am taking his word on this one. I am not only taking his word I see it as true. I see it as true then I feel for him.
I should have been more discrete. It would be more productive to my goal.
You should stop, think about what your goal actually is and take in to account that if you have a goal that involves another person who does not have the need to comply with your wishes and has goals of their own that may not be in line with yours. You've also stated that you don't know him very well and yet desire to validate him. Many people don't feel the need for validation from those they don't know well.
Just chill.
damn good advice