That's what I chose too.
Maybe it was the unemployment that got me rejected.
I just checked and I have 122 matches so far in 2 weeks. I signed up because I wanted to see if I would get matched with anyone. So far all of my matches are "a great match who just happens outside of your settings". It looks like a lot of them are close but none of them are complete.
I thought it was strange the profile would give back that you are meditative or thoughtful... For a while this made me curious, so I made my own.
I thought they were just pre-made packs of general words after I got the exact same set of words for "Reserved" as you, lol. I mean... not to be offensive. You may be inaccessible, but restrained? Ehhhh.
It is kind of like the horoscope, lol.