Do we always end up with our opposite? Disordered people seem to. Even psychology backs up that it is far too common for bpd to end up with npd or aspd. And inverted narcissist were practically born to serve a narcissist/sociopath. They are not attracted to any other kind. This does not mean opposites make for a harmonious relationship by any stretch. Are disordered people harmonious in any kind of relationship after all? But is it impossible for say- classic narcissist to be as attracted to another classic, just as much as they would a bpd or inverted? I can't imagine it.
BPD are you emotional bleeders, victims of life.
NPD...when confused in the male gender, are a hot melt of chaos, substance addiction and delusions. Lots of mommy issues there.
In short, a headache and begging to be hammered into little gory bits of hamburger meat.
But otherwise kind of cute...when not shitting themselves with some retarded tantrums.
I seem to care for people who are deeply intense in one way or another. I am intense. I like people who are strong willed. I am strong willed.
Other than that, I like men who look the opposite from me, tall, lean and blond. I like introverts. I am an extravert.
I think I am attracted to disordered people because i feel that I understand them and can help them. I am wrong.
by StayonhereI like men who look the opposite from me, tall, lean and blond.
I can see how that's panning out for you..... 
i feel that I understand them and can help them.
Y'heard ze old one about the boy scout and the blind old lady who actually didn't want to cross the road?
I am wrong.
Very.
I am most attracted to moderately to highly intelligent people who have absurd world-views and vast insecurities. For a relationship, I like highly affection-starved/affection-dependent girls who need me to tell them they're great. They can have moderately low self-esteems or they could absolutely despise themselves. Either ends up working out unless they don't get close enough, soon enough. If they can have strong intentions with a weak Will, then I can work with that, too.
For a friendship, I prefer people like myself: Little to no insecurities, no affection/emotional dependence, and logical/callous views of the world. Although, one quality I like in others that I tend not to find in myself is decisiveness. I like it when people are really good or really confident in their decision-making. I tend to second-guess myself a lot, but as I've recently found out, my gut-reactions tend to be spot-on. Hopefully the indecisiveness is able to worked out in the near future, so that I can get rid of that requirement for my friends' traits.
So, all in all, I think those who deviate from normalcy tend to be attracted to opposites. But most of the time, I don't think such attractions involve much respect.