A really beautifully made animation on the subject
My father attempted suicide in front of me when I was younger. I was anywhere from 9-12. He swallowed a bottle of pills and I watched him from a corner.
I remember thinking to myself if he dies my mother will never be able to take care of us. Because she is absolutely incompetent. This is all that
But again no abandonment issues.
you can borrow it but you have to give it back, and i charge rent for it !
I'm just saying it seems a stretch for people to describe these childhood traumas and then assert that it had no affect on their psyche at all .... It seems a lot of sociopaths had a really fucked childhood when you consider the hardwiring vs environment factors