Wow, this thread got so much better all of the sudden
Ugh. The way in which you post multiple responses makes it difficult for me to track what, specifically, you are replying to... So I’ll set an example for dolts like you and model how it should be done. You’re welcome.
Actually if you truly cared about your marriage you'd be in an open relationship... :/
Who the hell are you to say what my marriage should be? Tend to your own affairs. That could never work for us. To each their own.
I've seen many women that tried to get their husbands to be more alpha, if anything it lead to more resentment and broken ego... telling a man he isn't man enough for her... i'm sure that will work... if you couldn't tell that was sarcasm
Whatever. It’s just sex. She should tell him what she wants. Not everyone likes to parade around in fetish gear, take their collared bitch out for walks on a leash, and pretend to be big bad Domly Doms, like you. Not all men are so insecure that they think a confident woman who asks for what she wants makes him less of a man.
She should hand him a whip and tell him to get cracking. :P
You can get people to play pretend all you want, but a tiger can't change its stripes... and a sheep can't grow claws...
You’re so rigid. Your insistence on roles, hierarchy and “place†is boring. My sexuality is much more fluid than that. I can be whoever I want, and enjoy it every single time.
"I favour sensation oriented, hardcore sm over d/s roleplay"
You say that as if there is a difference... But they are both simply different levels of the same thing.
They are just different manifestations of a common predilection. Some people like vanilla, others prefer chocolate. I like a myriad of flavours.
I'm picturing a very large woman now...
...Yet another item on a long list of things you’re wrong about.
Wow... that sounds very sad... You experience the lifestyle in only one dimension... You have no idea how much depth there can be in what you do...
We don’t live the BDSM “lifestyleâ€. That’s for pretentious “cyberdom†posers like you.
I have been with the same partner for over a decade, and we have played hardcore for all of those years. He's a sexual sadist, and I routinely put my life into his hands, and do not as much as blink. He accords me the same privilege.
As a bottom, I feed off of my husband’s sadism. On top, I get off on the power I am exerting over him, and the studied passivity with which he offers himself, even though it is never his preference.
Do you have any idea what kind of intimacy the continued exercise of that level of trust breeds? I doubt it, with your multiple partners, and so-called harems of insecure women who loathe themselves.
And you claim that I have intimacy issues. :)
I can virtually guarantee that I’ve stuck my head far deeper down the rabbit hole than you, Master Ass Clown. You’re just a poser, who couldn’t give or take a proper beating if his life depended on it. We’re the real deal. We have what you can only fantasize about.