I'm not complaining, I am just commenting. :)
How old is she 25?
I've seen many women that tried to get their husbands to be more alpha, if anything it lead to more resentment and broken ego... telling a man he isn't man enough for her... i'm sure that will work... if you couldn't tell that was sarcasm
You can get people to play pretend all you want, but a tiger can't change its stripes... and a sheep can't grow claws...