there seems to be alot views on the subject lately and just wanted to see if we could get a thread going to discuss some of the views, misconceptions, and testimonials regarding one of my fav lifestyles. even swap a few ideas and stories.....
i know i dont give very much here, not nearly as much as i take away so i want to take the chance to be a lil more open (if anyone cares at all)
Name: Gia bka Daddy*
Position Sub/Dom: Dominant
Length of Position: actively acknowledged 1 year
for me and our lifestyle BDSM is not solely about pain and punishment. it's about trust, understanding, loyalty and privilege.
My sub is not your sub. she is only submissive to me. in fact she'll probably try to kick your ass or at the very least definitely curse you out for even thinking of stepping out of line with her.
i am her Dom because i am a natural born leader and have earned and continue to earn and demand her respect and love. she feels her most secure in my presence and arms, because i know who she is entirely. i have always seen thru the tough exterior to the fragile beauty within and she knows i will do all that is within my power to protect her at every cost.
i have worn and broken down all her defenses so that now and forever she will always be naked in my presence and she will never have any doubt that she is safe.
...and so she SUBMITS.
in finding me worthy like all true leaders she wishing nothing more than to prove her loyalty to me. to prove she is willing to learn from me all she needs to know. to endure what pain and hardships she must in order to be worthy of being called MINE. she rebels slightly only because she knows i will punish her and she wants nothing more than to prove to me how much her love and loyalty is unflinching no matter the cost. she knows with all her being the ecstasy, pleasure, and security i provide greatly outweighs any pain i will force her to endure.
NO MAN IS HER EQUAL. they all either beneath her or above and she will only submit to something greater than herself and will constantly rebel and belittle any man she finds to be below.
she submits to me as i must submit to being her lover, her teacher, her confidant,.......her MASTER
"Je ne conquiert pas, je vous soumets......."