Do tell us more about it, dear... I can see youre just dying to! :)
I'm a stalker.
http://sociopath-community.com/topic/2014-01-18/stalking-what-happens-once-you-ve-won
In most cases, it's not a drive or a motive. Just a obsessive bond to their person of intrest. To put it in perspective, imagine all of your desires, intrests, temptations, goals and ambitions manifested into one physical being. A drive would be a understatment when it comes to stalkers, you are their life. I've beaten men in the street for bullying her, I have enitre friend circles and their only use to me is that they are close to her. I've sent her countless poems and when she blocked my number I mailed them to her, I have advised and counseled her through every hardship since we met. Then again I'd be classified as the Intimacy Seeker (stalker sub-type).
Unless you have a rejected or a predatorial stalker, in which their only goal is to torment you for rejecting their bond with you.
My drive personally is something to behold:
"Read closely, I've had other women, we dont match. Sure we can stand each other and they have a vagina. I know most of you are thinking what else do you need. I thought the same until I met her. I dont fantasize about having sexual relations with her. I imagine us staring at the moon, trading our theories and complimenting each others ideology. Sharing our concepts of this planet and judging the world together. That why the stalking is easy, because by viewing her statements and information I can build her mindset. We still occasionally(once every 3 months) text eachother. I stalk her because Im infatuated with her mind. I should probably show this to her she'd think it was sweet. Thats the mentality she has. Its a rarity, im not letting this opportunity slip through my fingers because a jealous lesbian tried to swing first and lied to feel a little sense of victory."
The irony of this statement, I should've seen it coming
I'd be glad to answer any questions.